What do guys want for Valentine's Day?

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It's a question I don't see/ hear asked all that often. It's widely portrayed as a day more for us women, but guys exist too.

What women want for Valentine's Day is well known: chocolates, cards, wine, pushes, spa days, etc.

Normally, guys get a combo of sex and maybe a card while setting her in sexy new lingerie. Not that I've ever heard of a guy complaining about those. But, what do you guys want? What would you like?

Part of this stems from people commenting that the only flowers a man ever gets is at his funeral.

stratford · Accepted Answer

It's a day motivated by a commercial objective for businesses to make money, much in the same way as Halloween and Christmas.

I prefer to cherish my girl at other times of the year so she knows she is special and that I'm not just fulfilling some social pressure driven date in the diary.

That said, it can be made special if done in the right way.

For me, being a typical guy, I would love a romantic dinner, a little bit too much to drink and then something extra naughty or kinky in the bedroom, with her perhaps giving a little more attention to my needs than she normally would.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't turn down some nice sex while she seduces in lingerie, but honestly the big thing that would make me happy is a handwritten note explaining why she loves me placed on top of a nice made lunch she made me for work the night before.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

He would want chocolates, tools, a beeswax candle and something naughty

Nik1hil · Answer

Entire Market is Built on idea of "What women want!" Women want stuff..

Men want women!..

If you really want to give men something, Tell him to take a few days off and do nothing!..

If he is a Dad, Get him more free time so he can spend with his Kids and wife and whole family.. that's what men want

OtterMan68 · Answer

a gift certificate to a reputable massuese for a massage
nice bottle of wine or liquor
gift card to a sporting goods store
If there's a barber shop in town known for giving hot-lather, straight razor shaves, get him that. Having a pro shave and a haircut is nice
cologne
nice smelling men's soaps or body wash
grilling/BBQ stuff

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

For her to quit work early and we make delicious dinner at home together and don't care whether the kids like it or not :-)

boggboss · Answer

It is a day aimed at women not really sure I care about getting anything on it

jamesgoldman · Answer

Enough sales to kick back you know I don't know it's been too long to think about myself

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I want a nice meal and a quiet relaxing day at home

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Literally nothing please lol. The sex is perfect. Lol

Yellovv · Answer

Maybe you need to make handmade gift for your boyfriend, such as bracelet or something like that..

Staximus · Answer

A nice meal and a vagina in my face

NathanDavis · Answer

a knife... or any blade

Professor-college · Answer

I would love to spend time with the woman who really loves me and also a lot of passion with her too would be nice

normalice · Answer

Blow jobs are flowers for men, just sayin..

kingmaker21 · Answer

Peace n small celebration with my girl...

Massageman · Answer

24 hours where I get asked no questions!

CozyCoffin · Answer

I don't want anything.

gorydetails · Answer

I want a blowjob.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

A female I respect lol

shortster · Answer

Personally, a girlfriend.

TallAnon · Answer

What we always want, nothing to special about it

muscles_glasses · Answer

Im so very single so I dont want anything

CubaPirate · Answer

Probably a bj

SecurelyInsecure · Answer

Probably sex? haa

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

A gift

Akam93 · Answer

Sex mostly.

Muslimhorny · Answer

Sex like a porn star

Anonymous · Answer

No talking

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