It's a question I don't see/ hear asked all that often. It's widely portrayed as a day more for us women, but guys exist too.
What women want for Valentine's Day is well known: chocolates, cards, wine, pushes, spa days, etc.
Normally, guys get a combo of sex and maybe a card while setting her in sexy new lingerie. Not that I've ever heard of a guy complaining about those. But, what do you guys want? What would you like?
Part of this stems from people commenting that the only flowers a man ever gets is at his funeral.
It's a day motivated by a commercial objective for businesses to make money, much in the same way as Halloween and Christmas.
I prefer to cherish my girl at other times of the year so she knows she is special and that I'm not just fulfilling some social pressure driven date in the diary.
That said, it can be made special if done in the right way.
For me, being a typical guy, I would love a romantic dinner, a little bit too much to drink and then something extra naughty or kinky in the bedroom, with her perhaps giving a little more attention to my needs than she normally would.
I wouldn't turn down some nice sex while she seduces in lingerie, but honestly the big thing that would make me happy is a handwritten note explaining why she loves me placed on top of a nice made lunch she made me for work the night before.
a gift certificate to a reputable massuese for a massage nice bottle of wine or liquor gift card to a sporting goods store If there's a barber shop in town known for giving hot-lather, straight razor shaves, get him that. Having a pro shave and a haircut is nice cologne nice smelling men's soaps or body wash grilling/BBQ stuff
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