I currently have feelings for my coworker. For the last few months we have been very close and talk for hours outside of work and have flirty banter. Although I have feelings, I have been very discreet about them and always match his energy and behaviour towards me (never more). Recently, my coworker has been very moody where somedays it seems that he is really into me and other days he is very distant and awkward. Last night out of the blue I get a text where he said that he wants to be clear that we are only coworkers and it seemed like a message that would only be necessary IF I had confessed having feelings (which I did not). I am very confused where this is coming from and he has not responded to my message back. It is clear based on the message he does not even want to be friends anymore just professional at work. Any chance he did have feelings or I am reading too much into the situation? I also have no idea how to proceed with this situation any advice would helpful!
3 mo
Coworker confronted me about feelings?
