What did my guy friend meant when he said “she doesn’t even let me talk you she interrupts me a lot?

[amanda_jaileen]

I been friends with my female friend since 5th grade I been friends with my guy friend for 11 years now our friendship start it off weird between me and my guy friend we would argue for hours almost all the time when I finally saw him he was shy, quiet, didn’t know what to say to me really. Then the following year he told me he had feelings for me I didn’t understand how or why if all we would do was argue, so we never really talked about getting in a relationship or his feelings about me. So a few years later go by on February of last year before we all three went to the club he told me “every-time I want to tell you something she won’t let me talk.” And we both stared at each other and we stood quiet. And after that he still remained quiet, nervous, shy, and awkward like the first time we ever hung out.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo sounds like your boy has had feelings for you for a long time but just never really knew how to show it since you guys used to argue a lot. And it seems like now whenever he tries to open up to you, your female friend doesn't give him space to do that.

When he said she interrupts him, I bet he meant like whenever he tries talking one on one with you, she jumps in the conversation and doesn't let him finish what he wants to say. And since you guys have a long history of fights, he probably gets nervous trying to tell you personal stuff with her around.

Maybe tell your friend you wanna hang solo with him sometime so he can open up without feeling on the spot. Reassure him you’re open to listening now without judgments. Give the dude a chance to really talk, who knows he may admit some real feelings have always been there. And if not at least you’ll build better understanding as friends. You never know!

[amanda_jaileen]

I will thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure

[laly520]

maybe she is against him confessing to u
u have to ask him privately

[amanda_jaileen]

Why would she be against him in confessing to me anything if he already did he just gets nervous shy doesn’t know how to talk me but why?

[laly520]

well who knows
sometimes girls get nosey n once they realise that their guy friend likes their other friend they would want to ruin it so its possible but the only way to know for sure is by talking to him privately

[amanda_jaileen]

I mean she doesn’t like him and has kept him in the friendzone for years plus he has dated to guys and the last time I check she said she still had feelings for her ex she was also going out on dates with this one girl she talk to me about, plus she is the one that has been inviting him all the time every time I’m around

[laly520]

hmmm I see
I still feel they had some talk without u knowing about it

[amanda_jaileen]

But why and I wonder about what?