I hear this from a lot of women online and it sounds really mean of them to even say. “Men have lower standards than women so the first woman who comes along when they’re ready is who they marry”.
can someone debunk this or is it just true?
At least in my case, I didn't even want to settle down until I met my wife, and I started out early into the dating process telling her that I have no plans of ever getting married. Being with her changed my mind.
I have noticed some of my buds who said, "I'm ready to settle down," getting married just a year or so later though to women they didn't even meet until after they said it. That seems a tad soon if they were being picky about who they married.
So sometimes I do get the impression if a man wants to settle down before he meets the right one, there might be some tendency to settle down with the first woman or so he dates after.
No, it's actually the opposite. When a man decides he's ready to settle down, it means he's ready to find a woman who is worthy of his commitment to spend the rest of his life with her. He has spent his adult life dating women and learning what is important to him, and what kind of woman he needs to be happy. He's not going to suddenly decide to throw all of that hard earned wisdom out the window and settle for a low quality woman as his life partner.
Well I have a lot of gay friends that have sex with men who married just to have a cover and impress their church and family. LOL. I'm straight, but my pals tell me all about it!
This is the dumbest thing I've heard today. It's also a great example of why you NEVER take relationship advice from other women.
More like guys won't marry the girl they love until they are ready to settle down.
Well in my case it is. My wife is my first and only girlfriend. And then I married her 👍🙂. And yes I love her very much ❤️👍🙂
No. I found one girl when I didn't know who or what I wanted. Unfortunately, no one has been able to overtake her.
Good question. I was the marrying kind. asked a lot of girls. They sensibly said no. Then i met the one Who really loved me and she said yes.
I do not believe this is true. In my experience, I have to. find someone compatible in all respects before considering them for marriage.
my ex and I settled. We both wanted a family. We had a wonderful son, but broke up
Usually this is the case.
Nope, didn’t
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