How do misogynists become misogynists?

[SolitarySolace]

Do bad women create misogynists? Does unfair treatment within a society create misogynists? Do multiple bad experiences with women create misogynists? What would you say causes a man to become a misogynist?

Bad women create misogynists

Unfair treatment within society create misogynists

Bad experiences create misogynists

All of the above

Other

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1 mo

- I believe bad women create misogynistic men and misogynistic men give bad women power over him in the process by lashing out. Which leads to others, both men and women, to defend the bad women who create the misogynists. Solidifying these misogynist men as misogynists.

[Kaneki05]

Like any extremist just delusional ideals that come from what they want to tell themselves to justify their actions and thoughts they are just a bad person in most cases. Some are crazy/manipulated into it but most choose to be that way then hide behind a facade of justified.

And if your asking why does that person want to be a bad person? Because simply it gives them more control and a lot of people just like been bad. But they also want to appear justified so they can pretend what they are doing ain't wrong because who likes to be outed as wrong.

It's just cowards who want to act out and pretend it has meaning, when they just enjoy it. Only a few admit they just like been that way but it's true for most of them.

[Kaneki05]

Congrats your one of those who don't admit it.

[pergamon300]

More importantly does it matter? haha.

Do you think in return, girls in general would ever sit there and worry, if dislike or injustice was ever headed in your direction?

[SolitarySolace]

They wouldn't give a flying fuck

[strateguy632]

real misogynists just got triggered by stuff. others are wrongly called misogynists.

[SotiCoto]

People are quick to form categorical judgements. If a guy has to routinely deal with unpleasant women then there is a fair chance he'll start blaming the unpleasantry on them being women, and extend it to other women in turn.

[Apple1996]

Men become that way because of society and their fathers/other men teach them how to be a misogynist from a young age. I have noticed men raised by single moms tend to not be so bad

[SolitarySolace]

Right. Men raised by single mothers just become criminals not misogynists

[Apple1996]

Nope misogynists tend to be the biggest criminals especially with rape and DV but many times goes unreported out of fear

[SolitarySolace]

"The bottom line is that there is a large body of literature showing that children of single mothers are more likely to commit crimes than children who grow up with their married parents. This is true not just in the United States, but wherever the issue has been researched."

[Apple1996]

That is because single mothers tend to be treated unfairly when it comes to finding work so these kids are forced to live in a poor environment. Has nothing to do with the mothers themselves. They teach their sons how to treat women properly

[SolitarySolace]

Keep telling yourself that, doll

[Apple1996]

I don't need to tell myself that. I've seen it with my own eyes 👀

[SolitarySolace]

You should probably see an eye doctor

[Apple1996]

I have perfect vision 😌

[SolitarySolace]

My dad would probably beg to differ. He's an Opthamologist

[dolemite58]

By having to coexist with how obnoxious a lot of women are it’s not rocket science 😂

[Bennygunns]

Men are superior both physically and mentally.. Fact.

[Dongie]

I said all of the above. But still more. I think it's in the Gene pool they come from. Just a nastiness in their personality.

[laly520]

I have an idea how u turned into one but at least u r seeking help
keep it up

[tremendousfern]

A combination of bad experiences and bad life decisions. Hating all women because of a few bad experiences isn't a healthy worldview.

[SolitarySolace]

What if it's not just a few bad experiences but many and they still keep happening the more you continue to keep attempting things and nothing ever changes?

[tremendousfern]

There's a saying I like: "sometimes the common link between all your shitty relationships is you." There are plenty of fine women out there, I think it's your poor attitude that's holding you back.

[SolitarySolace]

🤣🤣🤣 Right, that must be true. I mean, it's the same thing misandrists are always telling me. The one common denominator is me so it must be because of me not any of the women cuz women are perfect angels who can do no wrong why can't everyone just understand that and not be so damn misogynistic?

[tremendousfern]

I mean, you can look at my profile. I'm by no means a misandrist or a feminist or think women are perfect angels. I think though your hatred of women isn't healthy for your psyche. Your obsession is the mental equivalent of chugging poison and expecting all the women around you to drop dead because of how much poison you drank.

[SolitarySolace]

Ever stop to think maybe all that poison I enjoy drinking is to keep them away from me?

[tremendousfern]

If that's really the goal, then why not go join a monastery? Or walk off into the wilderness? But I don't think that's actually your goal because you keep engaging with women and keep stewing in your own hatred.

[SolitarySolace]

Who says I basically haven't already? I mean, it's a good thing I haven't dated in 9 years cuz Ill tell you whut the next one would definitely be my fault I can tell you that 🤣

[tremendousfern]

Well, you have an internet connection for one thing. Do you isolate yourself from everybody or just women?

[SolitarySolace]

Well I have to make money somehow but other than at work I don't interact with women unless I have to.

[tremendousfern]

You don't have any other social interactions outside of work? Have you thought about trying to find a club or something to meet up with people with shared interests?

[SolitarySolace]

I don't want to meet people. That would defeat the purpose of avoiding women on purpose

[tremendousfern]

You can find clubs with only male members. Maybe this warning is 9 years too late, but isolating yourself and seething on the internet is just slowly killing yourself. You aren't hurting anyone but yourself.

[SolitarySolace]

I have male friends I've met at work. And we hire and lose people all the time. And I honestly don't care. I'm planning on dying alone anyway

[NathanDavis]

well well... tell us your story, Solace...

[msc545]

All of the above.