My ex friends with benefits reached out to me and I’m confused about what he wants?

[Anonymous]

My ex friends with benefits and I have known each other for years a few months ago I decided to end the friends with benefits relationship because I wanted something different. 2 months ago we reconnected the first week he called me every day but then the calls stopped and he would occasionally text me to see what I was doing. when I responded he wouldn’t reply to my message or he would text me with a dry response. the first time we met up we sat in his car for an hour and talked about how our life was going. the second time we met up he came to my house and we talked he grabbed my butt a few times but we didn’t do anything sexual. he told me he would come back that night but he never did we were supposed to meet yesterday morning he text me to see if he could come over but I was at the store he told me he would come over once I got home and to call him. when I got back home just called him but he didn’t answered or text me and hours later he pocket dialed me and told me he didn’t mean to call but he didn’t mention why he didn’t contact me earlier that day. I’m not sure what he wants from me he reached out to me but he keeps flaking on me he acts uninterested but keep reaching out.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aye girl, sounds like this friends with benefits situation has got you all confused again huh. Let me break it down for you:

This dude is totally keeping you on the back burner for when he's bored or horny. He hits you up when it's convenient for him but flakes when other options come around. Classic fuckboy moves.

The half-assed convos, ignoring your texts, promising to come over then dipping - he's playing games! Thinks keeping you guessing will make you want him more. Don't fall for that weak ass manipulation.

You want something real and he just wants the benefits. So let me be clear - drop this clown sis! Stop answering when he calls with no follow through. You deserve way better than lame ass booty calls on his schedule.

Block his number if you have to. Once you cut him off, I bet he'll be begging to come back around. But don't give in - hell find some other girl to waste time with. You're independent now, so hold that head high!

Know your worth, aight? Next time he tries to hit you up, keep it pushing. He had his chance and blew it playing games. Fuck that noise, you're too fly for fuckboy shit!

[yeyeh]

His using you. He don’t even have the time to try talk to you after seeing you. Just move on and give him the same energy

[laly520]

r u serious? he wants ur body duh

[Anonymous]

He just wants to screw.