A guy being "too serious" to the point of being a turn-off...

[Prof_Don]

...girls, can you describe a situation when a guy you met was "too serious", to the point of it being a turn-off? I know that every girl has probably experienced one of these dudes before.

To me, the idea of a guy being "too serious" is something that I haven't heard defined by girls on this website. So I'm asking for input.

Thank you. :)

[Jasmine1233]

its a real turn off. when they start with the whole "i love you" and want commitment really early, and keep questioning me during a date. really, I just want a guy I can become friends with on a date, and just have a laugh with. a good sense of humor and the ability to laugh at ones self is what is most attractive for me.

[themuse_07]

It's common for girls to say this. But, why don't you first try to focus on positive things about him?You might find that there's more to him than just being uptight. ^^ Nobody's perfect, get to know more about him, if you really don't like the things he could offer then that's it. It's up to you what to do next.

[Prof_Don]

I don't date guys...I was talking about how girls can perceive a guy as "too serious".

Pardon me if I confused you. :)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

yeah it can be a turnoff. I used to work with this guy who I knew was feeling me, but he was too serious and a little boring. in contrast, another guy liked me and he was fun, relatable, charming and easy to talk to

[Toni88]

this one guy I used to talk to...he was never able to take a joke, or took it too literally. I found him too serious and no fun.

another way of being "too serious" is never crackin a smile, being tooo uptight, etc