It can be one way or another. He could be thinking that he likes you and he will just slip this in and see what happens. If she would be willing to change like that. OR there can be no such thought at all. He does not have to like you at all to say something like that. This can be sign that you might want to try to find out if he likes you, but you cannot be sure at all from this one thing alone.
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It's possible he could genuinely be looking for a girl's perspective on things. He might have said "if we ever dated," but he could have meant to ask "what is your perspective about... " He might be thinking about another girl. He might just want to know what is a deal breaker for you, because it might be the same for another girl he's thinking about.
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Depends on the conversation context. I flirt with my female friends that I would never consider dating. Sometimes I ask then their opinion for a woman's perspective. If he is interested a conversation will come up were he will say something similar to before, answer in a way that makes him draw it out more. He is not going to come right out as he doesn't want to screw up your relationship in case you don't to date.
What was his "deal breaker" ?
he's thinking about changing you, not dating you
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