Excuse the vulgar language, but that's how men refer to them. Just trying to relate.
Guys, what's the difference between "bitches" and good girls?
Excuse the vulgar language, but that's how men refer to them. Just trying to relate.
I think "bitches" are manipulative and walk all over guys. Like chocolate said, it is an attitude thing. But I imagine bitches as the type who is always yelling at her boyfriend and nothing is ever good enough. Men who like drama (consciously or unconsciously) and overly generous men go for these types. This is just my opinion on the stereotype though.
For us it is kinda like the nice guy vs bad boy thing. Definitely not as extreme, but the concept is the same. It's something that men don't understand about us and that we don't understand about them.
In the case of a "bitch"... Maybe she was nice when they started dating and her true nature came out later on and he was already invested in the relationship. Maybe men want to fix us just like we want to fix them? Maybe they like the challenge and want to be the one who tames her. And I know it's not just for hot girls, because I have seen some *hit up* girls get away with this shit.
I don't really know. They might have the explanation... And it's probably the same as the one that we have about the nice guy and bad boy thing, "you don't really know him!" Or "we like them strong, not weak and malleable" who knows.
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I think the big difference would be their attitude and how they act sexually.
i lye dat. are u consider a...to? lol
awww tankyu ma luver! ur the best! =D
What do you mean by "bitch?"
Sometimes guys refer to all women as "bitches" but it doesn't mean anything. It's always used to refer to women whom we do not know. "Damn that bitch got a fine ass."
If you mean "bitch" in the derogatory sense then answer to your question is subjective. It all depends on the individual. Maybe the bitches you speak of are super hot so the guys are more willing to put up with their shit. Maybe the guys are weak pansies and will take whatever these bitches dole out because they 1) have no confidence 2) put them on a pedestal or 3) hate being single.
It could also be that the guy is weird and enjoys being treated like crap, it happens.
Where do you live? I live in L.A. and by no means do any of my gender put up with that kind of bologna. No.. no, you may be right. I'm remembering a couple of guys right now ha ha. Well, I know I don't put up with that. If I had a nice girlfriend that would cater to me then I would have a perfect life.
Well, which city do you live in? I'm curious if this is a regional thing.
Well u have a better azz than her asker. Mind being ma bish? =)
I just really prefer guys call a women they don't know "a women" instead of "a bitch". When did people start replacing the word girl with bitch, and why is it synonymous, i'm actually completely curious
It just is. Why is everybody now called a "nigga?"
Yah that's right. EVERYBODY. When kids in South Central refer to someone who's black they say, "that black nigga over there." When they refer to a hispanic, "that hispanic nigga over there."
"Bitch" has just become more widely accepted, I imagine because there's nothing racial about it.
Why cheat on people who provide you with everything you desire? Possibly those "nice girlfriends" are not providing something they should. By the way, for me, most of the time I just go with choleric-extroverts are mostly bitches, and everything else isn't. I tend to avoid choleric-extroverts, I don't really trust them to make reasonable decisions. I wouldn't be picking someone controlling who overreacts on every single event and then is arguing with me about nonsensical things rather than reaching a valid conclusion. Some people just seem to have lower personality standards, I guess.
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I don't know its not uncommon for good girls to turn into bad girls so its not an appearance thing as much is a behaviour. mentality type of thing. a bad girl is just sort of the type to do things that other people would disapprove of , or do things where her main motivation is only money / sex. guys usually only want to be with " bad girls " cause there physically attractive , they don't have very many other positive qualities and often treat the guys who like them very badly especially when things sour as they often do with this type of girl
a good girl is more motivated by quality things or often has family values , and well still may enjoy money or sex those things are not her only motivation for being with the guy. a good girl cares about other people's feelings and physical appearance is likely not only reason to date this type of girl
Bad:
Flirts with other guys, teases them and haves sex with them even when in a relationship. Does drugs and hits the party scene/bars/clubs at night time looking to hook up with the hottest/richest guy around.
Good:
Has good morals and would not do the things above, is either religious or has familial values reflecting their personality, usually the shy girl ^_^
i knew a girl who was a good girl or still is sometimes but at night was turning into a bad girl and doing some of the things you mentioned especially at bars and got into drinking but was still a good girl rest of time sort of odd girl
well some of them are hybrids, you gotta watch out from them bro..!
I'd marry a girl on the place if she's good but at the same time go bad just for me :)
*at the same time WANTS to go bad
I don't think everything is as black and white as you say. I'm studying law at an ivy league school and I do drugs and drink at parties on the weekends, and I have morals (i go to church on Sunday when i'm not hungover) and my family is the most important thing to me in the world. In addition, I focus mainly on my school work during the week and I work part time at a pizza place.
@ElasticBali - As a final year med student, I can say that alcohol is detrimental to your health in long run.
And like I mentioned before, hybrids DOES exists.
I think "bitches" mask insecurity and vulnerability issues by acting like they don't care. Girls will manipulate guys to get attention without having to let their guard down. I don't think those types of girls are bad people at heart. They just have some issues to work through. That said, I'll steer clear until that's the case, haha.
Ever read Archie comics? Ronnie is a complete bitch but Archie and all the guys are after her. A bratty girl who demands boys attention rather than giving it. There is a sense of confidence and truth in it. Comfort in clearly defined roles possible...
It all comes down to sex appeal. Most bitches have it. There's something satisfying about sexually dominating a hot, stuck up bitch. I guess being able to dominate someone that won't be dominated by just anyone reaffirms some primitive sense of masculinity in us guys.
What im confuse is why would gurls not bother being called "My bish" in the first place? If i was a gurl and my guy or some random guy called meh that, i'd be on fire!
I only choose good gurls who still are fresh and pure =3
I dont want the so called "bish" cuz they're alrdy used up..
No thats not going to happen cuz why? Im going to unlock her Universe and be inside with her forever <3
there's no way i would ever leave her..she's meant for meh. I'd rather stay single for life than being with someone whos alrdy used up and abuse but if its a date she asked, sure why not.
what do you mean by fresh and pure?
He means a virgin.
lol He's been do it all day :)
*doing
lol Has he figured it out yet?
lol dun mind her ma luver, juz jelly =P
haha pass out from her seduction skillz =P
but u can still be ma bish asker if u like =)
not sure if u wanna be called that yourself =x
if im not in your wishlist, than maybe playlist at least ?
lmao what did you write on my answer?
I said were alrdy stalken eachother ever since the beginning of times =3
Its juz dat asker won't get none from yo boi xP
Jelly!
you want all of me right?
but i can be on your playlist asker if its not on the wishlist x)
yeah ma luver will forever remain my luver <3
who said your the 2nd options? dont u like to play wif meh sumtimes? =}
lmao you know you're my one and only :)
To me, bitches are women that have a better-than-you attitude and say mean or uncalled for things and gives the excuse 'Im just being honest.' If I see that attitude, it is a turn off. I like sweet, nice girls.
Holy shit you're beautiful 0.0 😍
Oh, uhh I guess the difference is that a "bitch" is just a side chick that a guy can use as back up in case his main goal "nice girl" doesn't work out. Is your name really Luna? That's a really cool name!
I'd kill for a good girl, are there any out there still?
That's just human nature. People do whatever they can get away with. Also bitches are way more fun than nice girls.
about 4 days out of the month lol
One's a dog one's a human being?
Because good girls are boring
more like bad gurls are annoying =P
I can relate to that.
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