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I want my girlfriend to be fit and look like this? (Page 2)
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If you don't love her now, you won't love her later
"hey babe, here's a picture of what I wish you looked like"
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getting her active is fine, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but her body isn't gonna morph into your ideal when she starts jogging or whatever.
yeah I know I`m realistic on expectations
don't seem to be.
Just make up an excuse saying you need a gym partner and bring her along.
If you're going to be this shallow you need to break up with her.
you are jumping to conclusions here
No I'm not home slice. What you're asking of her is really shallow. If you don't like the way she looks you two shouldn't be seeing each other to begin with.
my point is that there is room for improvement including myself
What if she thinks neither of you have nothing to improve and likes the way things are? Her looking like that isn't an improvement and if anything it would do more emotional damage than you think.
I think you girls are making a big deal out of nothing
Actually we're making a big deal out of something. We're feeling bad for a woman who has a terrible boyfriend and she isn't aware of it.
I`m starting to wonder if the girls here are just jealous of the girl in the photo
First off if I were to have my dream body there'd be a lot less ass implants and a lot more boob. Second thing is no one is jealous of her, her face (average) and body type aren't my preference. If I were to go lesbian today I'd much prefer a ginger with a doll face and nice tits. :T
I'm going nowhere near this question advice wise but I'm curious - how long have you been with her?
5 months
And has she put on weight in that time?
nothing noticeable
Then why did you date her in the first place? If it's not her body, why did you date her?
I find her attractive but I only want her to stay fit and active with me
I choose her because her personality
Right. So she has a fabulous personality but now that the honeymoon is starting to fade, you're wanting to change her.
Do you know how she feels about her body?
I think deep down she is conscious that she is not fit because I work out and she doesn`t
Demanding her to look like that is NOT okay, but encouraging it is - as long as you step lightly, it's a very sensitive topic and you could easily ruin her self esteem.
If you're smart you won't say anything, show any pictures, or even bring it up.
If you can't accept the way she is there is a problem, not with she but with you.
I'm accepting of her
That's really fucked up. If you weren't happy in the first place why'd you date her in the first place?
I think it's fair if she's the type to take up a challenge and if she's already not tha far from the picture you have. If that woman looks too different from your gf I think it will offend her
I only want her to get in shape
I understand dude I don't think it's a big thing to ask of her just go ahead. Girls are too senstive about this weight thing I called a girl over-weight on here and got tons of crap for it. But if a girl called me overweight I'll just accept it and work on it. Girls sometimes have double standards it's silly
I agree with you there is a lot of double standards going on and us guys take criticism lightly so why shouldn`t they
I understand that you want your partner to look good but no that's not fair. You should love her no matter how she looks..
I already do but it would be something extra for both of us and its not like I`m asking her to get a boob job
I think it's fair. If you take care of yourself she should too. Exercise is healthy and if she's overweight it's good for her. I don't know how to ask her without offending her though
What I would do is just say "Hey, you should exercise with me sometime. It's hard but it's really fun, and I personally think you'd look even better with an athletic body."
Show her your goals and models you like, then she will eventually find her own models to look up to.
By models he likes I hope you mean guys he aspires to, not picutrs of girls
i meant male models
Ask her to do some activities together or work out together.
Sounds like your girlfriend should dump you
Probably not a totally unrealistic goal, maybe exercise with her?
You'll basically never find a women in that good of shape. If you expect your girlfriend to look like that it won't happen
Um... Just go to the gym together
That is what I had in mind
Surface reality is only surface reality!
what is under the surface guru?
Real depth of character and meaning. Perhaps even love.
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