Do girls lose their attraction for a guy with too much time?

[kevlar]

I knew a girl that I had the hots for. But she left for schooling down south. She comes back up and now she's dating a guy, that I think she dated because she wanted someone to date (She's a youngie). How do I know if she still likes me? Do girls ever lose their attraction for a guy they always knew was awesome? :)

[krissadd]

I know that if I'm attracted to a person once, then I don't stop being attracted to them ever. I guess something major could happen though that would change their appearance and I don't know how I would react to them then, but if it was something like losing weight or gaining weight I would still be attracted. I had a friend in 7th grade who liked me, I liked him too, but I knew I was too young for the things he was ready for so I always told him no, and that we were just friends. about 5 years passed and I saw him and I was instantly attracted to him, haha it was weird... but that's how it is for me ;)

[kevlar]

For ever ever? That sounds really good. It's good to know I can pick things up from when she left. Thanks!

[krissadd]

Your Welcome!

[Anonymous]

I personally will have to say no because there's this guy I've known for a few years and we only went out once but we talk all the time by text msgs and I'm still very much attracted to him even though were just friend s

[kevlar]

Hey thanks. I think I'm going to turn it up a notch and see if she's down. I need a down chick

[Dorby]

If there is a sparkle, make it turn to "fire". And when there is "fire", try keep it burning.

Interest, chemistry and curiousity are important things when keeping up the attraction, and that's how relationships working to, it needs "firewood" time to time.

[sarahisaboss]

You could have lost your chance. She could have liked you before but now found this guy. Girls don't like to wait. If you make her wait chances are she will loose that feeling for you. If you like her tell her, no guessing games.