it's something you do for your self and personal health in first place so why should you attach it to someone and make it a favor to them? sorry but it doesn't make sense to me !
Only if they were keeping fit just to attract somebody. If you're keeping fit for yourself or simply to be healthy (in other words the right reasons) then how comfortable you are in a relationship shouldn't have any effect on how fit you keep yourself.
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it's something you do for your self and personal health in first place so why should you attach it to someone and make it a favor to them? sorry but it doesn't make sense to me !
I don't see the point of that. You're getting married to someone who loves you. Surely that's the most important part of the wedding.
yes, i would wait. i would want us to look and feel our best on that day. and maintain that lifestyle.
I'd wait it out. I'm not overweight, but if I was, me and my fiance (if I ever get one) would take it to the gym and no marriage until we shed it out.
Especially since I don't want the wedding picture to look gross.
I think that's silly. Are people assuming their partner will always look the same?
Vote 'B' - we'll get in shape exercising the whole body banging each other all over the place lol
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I don't think I would. Marriage is a journey just like weight loss. Why not walk it together?
No. If I loved the person I wouldn't wait. I wouldn't care about what his body looked like either.
I would wait to get married until I was in shape. This would give you more motivation to get in shape and not keep putting it off
Probably not just because of my lifestyle and once you get married things tend to go downhill lol.
Don't people gain weight usually in relationships when they get too comfortable?
Only if they were keeping fit just to attract somebody.
If you're keeping fit for yourself or simply to be healthy (in other words the right reasons) then how comfortable you are in a relationship shouldn't have any effect on how fit you keep yourself.
Never in a million years would anybody (not the one who didn't suggest it) look at that as committing to be physically healthier 😁
I'm waiting till marriage regardless.
I'm trying to get fatter.
it's an individual commitment. Never wait for someone to commit to something.
I wouldn't care about that. I don't feel the need or even see the purpose in waiting for that first
If thats what it takes for her to get motivated then sure.
That would be a great motivation but I can't wait 😛
Yes definitely get in physical shape first.
i vote for the second option
Wait until we're in physical shape