Where do I fit it?

[FitzCarly2008]

I feel as if I am just the therapist in my group of friends. they never ask how I'm doing. they just come for advice and leave. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

where do I start hmmmm?well there just asking for advice as you already know hat but still it isn't nice for them to walk away from you it's not right and you feel stupid then like your prob thinking did you say something wrong to them or do they think your a freak don't let that get to you if they want you to tell them good advice leave them figure it out for them selves cause they have to learn and when you're not around who will they ask then so just have a girl''s night like a sleep over or something and talk about things and bring that one up in a conversation not in a mean way like just tell them your sick of it ok besty of luck xxxxxxxxx

[bluexxeyes]

well one of my best friends felt this way to but the truth was that she didn't want to tell us how she was doing. We did ask her how things were but she would just always say "I don't wanna talk about it" or something like that without even realizing that we were asking her about her life. So maybe they do ask you, you just don't realize it but if not, then you need to start coming to them for advice. You gotta speak up if you want something to change.

[irish-girl-08]

my friends do the same anytime they need advice,a shoulder to cry on or just a chat they come to me but if I'm upset and need someone they don't want to know its like I'm there counselor and they only come to me when I'm needed!

ive had it out with friends about this several times and nothing has changed I'm actually mad at them right now about this

[gloria]

well they turn to you for advice because your the number 1 person they can turn to. well anyways just keep on helping them or if you feel that you can't just tell them maybe therapy is the perfect career for you!

[sassysenorita]

let them know how you feel. its cool that they feel they can talk to you but they have no right to make you feel like ur being taken advantage of emotionally.