Is 40B, 200 pounds too big? I consider myself fat, and have never had a boyfriend. And its pretty obvious that guys are more attracted to skinnier chicks, input? Guys? Answer please?
I consider myself fat, and have never had a boyfriend.
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I am about the same weight as you and about 5'6". I have been trying to lose weight for a while. But I have a boyfriend who loves me very much :) So I can attest that you are not too fat to have a boyfriend. Just be confident, I know it can be hard at times, but try to be confident and have a good time. Love yourself and hopefully a guy will see the good in you. When you go out, dress nicely, find clothes that suit your body type.
Don't get into the mindset that only skinny girls can have bf's, you can too! :) I have one and it is possible! Sometimes guys can be superficial, but some guy don't care :) So don't discount yourself just because of your weight.
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200 pounds is too big at any height. I myself weigh about 215 pounds and I am admittedly less attractive than I was 40-50 pounds ago. Lose weight while you can! Yes, you could get a boyfriend but your options will be much much smaller. You will look much less attractive now than you would if you lost at least 40-50 pounds and got down to a healthy size. It's not ALL about weight but let's be honest that makes a huge difference in the way you look and probably your confidence. the fact that you even had to ask shows a lot.
lets say there are guys out there that would date your type. I myself would. As long as you have aq good heart and not a bitch, that guy will come...trust me...
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Yeah, 200lbs is too big. No wiggle room on that either, that's venturing into the unhealthy zone.
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You're overweight(40 B is huge and 200 lbs is huge also, no offense)
Yes, guys are more attracted to girls who are healthy and in shape, but clearly not every single overweight person is single and remains single.
Sometimes YOU have to put in a little effort. Guys nowadays lack balls(nevermind, it's the dudes on this site), but again, sometimes you gotta let them know you're interested -
Well if you are like 6ft4 that's ok.
But I doubt that is your height...anyway...if you are overweight..and you are comfortable with yourself...the man who loves you will not care.
Tbh...some men overlook weight...they prefer personality...and if you look good..fat or skinny...a guy will come through...i am 150...and still single. So..it isn't about weight. -
You're overweight but that has nothing to do with not having a boyfriend. I'm a bit overweight myself and I get hit on constantly by guys. I am willing to lose weight for a healthier lifestyle..for myself. I hope you do the same :)
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I don't know your height so I can't say. Guys have their own opinions on what they like. I am curvy and that's what my guy says he likes.
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that really depends on how tall you are. if you're 6'5 or 4'11. height makes all the difference
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How tall?
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