I Know My Sister is a Narcissist, And Jealous of Me, But Why does it Appear She is Trying Now to Be-----ME?

[Paris13]

**I am Noticing It on Her Social Media and Also At Home. Any Thoughts on Someone Who is Jealous of me and is Now Doing This? xxoo

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Now... It is Almost Like in One of Those Horror Movie Type Things. lol!!! xxoo

[TommyMountainFigure]

Just a thought, but have you considered that perhaps maybe she's had enough of being her?

After all Paris, you did say she was jealous of you. What if now she thinks she can do a better job of BEING you?

I think I even saw a horror movie like this once :O

I just felt a shudder go right through me!

[Paris13]

@TommyMountainFigure Wow!!! Make Sense... She is In a Relationship and Life Rut in a Small Town. xxoo

[TommyMountainFigure]

>:D< Thank you for choosing my answer as most helpful Paris, and I hope you can help her find herself again. After all. there is only one Paris >:D<

[Wiredone]

It sounds like she's not only jealous of you but obsessed over your life and trying to become you.

[Paris13]

OMG!!! OBSESSED? xx

[Wiredone]

If she's starting to do things just like you she may be obsessed over your life and accomplishments

[Paris13]

How Sad... And Thank You, dear. xxoo

[Wiredone]

You're welcome and thank you for the mho

[Massageman]

They crave what they - inherently- lack.

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[thegreenyogi]

Well maybe it would help you to answer this question: why is your sister jealous of you? Possibly she feels you take the spotlight more than she does and she feels that by becoming like you she can somehow take the spotlight back. Narcissistic people love making everything about themselves and it does come deep down from big insecurities of their own. Xx

[Paris13]

Love This But a Word That Goes Hand in Hand? xxoo

[Paris13]

I am Now Getting Worried... xx

[Med_guy1978]

I agree! You are probably looked up to and she has a complex of inferiority and would like to be you. By putting you down but copying you she almost wants to take your place. Unfortunately, this is hard to beat, She probably isn't happy in love either or she would keave you be. I dunno, without more info its ahrd to say exactly. She is probably younger too, just a guess.

[thegreenyogi]

In reality siblings a lot of the time are copycats. Its just a different form of admiration for their elders. Xx

[superchan2011]

Well she probably does want to be like you deep down. That's where jealousy usually begins. When someone wants to either be you or have something that you have and feel inferior. I would say in a way you should feel flattered by that fact as it shows that you have something special about you that she wishes she had.

[Paris13]

Not Flattered when She Will Not Read My Published Book, Loses It or Will Not Read My Memorial Card I Had Made for Our Dead Mom and even Loses my Address... Running out of Breath. xx

[superchan2011]

Yeah I could be wrong but that sounds like part of your sister's whole jealousy thing. Plus you did say she's a narcissist, so she won't care about anything that's outside of herself. That's why she wouldn't read your book or your memorial card to your mom. It's not about her.

[StudyingAuthor]

I'm sort of a narcissist, but I'm not the type to beat people down. I used to, but anything can get better over time.

[Paris13]

Great! xx

[Dongie]

A logical recourse. The traits that cause jealousy, admirable ones, have brought about the old adage, subconsciously, 'if you can't beat them join them '.

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[Dongie]

Yeah, its Saturday.

[M4YEDA]

you're probably the more successful and parents' favourite one. the comparison between siblings often causes such issues
I copy a few traits of my elder sister too. tho it's because I see her as an idol. and we are in a great relationship

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck! xx

[M4YEDA]

it's my second time opening a account here. I deleted the first one to focus on studies because I had an admission test ahead. I did succeed in that test so now I live in a residential military school T_T
I'm just here for the vacation

[Med_guy1978]

Some siblings look up to their older ones and through love and respect copy them, this is probably down to the way the children are brought up.

[Paris13]

Happy To Hear from You. xx

[Med_guy1978]

:) Anytime... I'm glad to help ;)

[Paris13]

@Med_guy1978 Thank You and The Other Was for @m4yeda lolxx

[Med_guy1978]

:P hihi

[M4YEDA]

xd ^_^

[JoePro_]

If she's a narcissist, it's probably an attempt to take attention away from you. If you're normally an attention grabber, she wants that attention. So she'll mimic what she can to see if it gives her an advantage over you, probably to later throw it in your face, or emotionally manipulate you with it somehow.

[Alex8736]

They are the ones that talk the talk and never walk the walk and talk smack about anyone successful but then try to act like them but in an unoriginal and insincere way

[Paris13]

How Sad. xx

[DJB72]

If she's jealous of you AND narcissistic then it figures

[Paris13]

Yikes!!! xx

[MsBrie]

Maybe She's trying to see what works for You might work for Her what is she jealous of?

[Paris13]

My Social Media Acknowledgement, My Published Book, Better Looking Than Her, Have Traveled All Over and Even Lived in Egypt... Running out of Breath.. lolxx

[MsBrie]

Well I could see how she would be jealous of those things, maybe she is trying to accomplish those things for herself?

[handsomelad70]

I'm a narcissist, just not an a**hole about it.

[Paris13]

I Believe Females are the Worse. lolxx

[handsomelad70]

Before their looks go, long before we lads' (have you heard of a 70-year-old gal with girlish good looks?), hot chicks are so in demand they can afford to be narcissistic.

[Paris13]

lol She is Not That Hot, I am The Hottter One. lol!!! xx

[Med_guy1978]

You'd think so? You're probably right generally but guys can be bad too.

[Med_guy1978]

... :) ...

[OddBeMe]

Perhaps your obsessed with her and think she’s trying to copy you.

[Paris13]

I Caught Her!!! xx

[blizzybuttercup]

omg we both got sister problems! we are better than them and they mad lol

[Paris13]

lol!!! I Think. xx

[ElaN351]

Is she older than you? Did she that before or it just recently?

[Paris13]

Middle One. It Has Been Going On but Now----Social Media Things? lolxx

[ElaN351]

Oooh! That’s interesting. My sister is kinda doing the same thing I believe because she didn't really have a childhood and didn't care much about a social life or looks. In her mid forties she is acting more like a teenager than her age. She is dressing a lot like me now. But not to the point of imitation. I think it is a little flattering that your sister is trying to match your looks. however if it gets creepy she might be doing it to get a reaction out of you or worst… trying to be you for real… that’s way above my pay rate!

[Paris13]

@elan351 It Began with my Published Book which She refuses to even KEEP at Her Home and with My Social Media and Even Deeper, Getting Scarier. I have Traveled all Over The Globe and even Lived All Over in my The USA, And she is in a Rut in a One Town no Place. How sad... Beware of your own Sister. xxoo

[ElaN351]

Ok… if you are not a narcissist yourself ( excuse my honesty) and if no physical harm has been done. Just let it go! Let her shine through you as it may. It’ll either get old or she’ll lose interest since you don’t care. You are the only you in this world, that’ll never change. You’ve have nothing to fear.

[Paris13]

@elan351 lol Not a Narcissist But hate to Be Disrespected and Looked Unkindly On with My Success and Then------Being Imitated and Restricted on her FB to See a MINI ME through My Roomie's FB. lol!!! xxoo

[Med_guy1978]

You're getting a lot of sttention from guys so she dresses like you to get as much attention?

[Paris13]

@Med_guy1978 Yeah, Scammers I Think on Her FB. lolxx

[Med_guy1978]

How do you mean?

[marriecarlson]

because she’s jealous of you, you said it.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xx

[dreamstar72]

She is more envious of her not being you

[Paris13]

Yes, Envy is a Sin. xx

[loveslongnails]

That's often what they do.

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[worldscolide]

Oh thats just creepy. No idea.

[Paris13]

Crawly Too. xx

[Likes2drive]

Maybe she is mirroring you

[Paris13]

lol I see a Snap of Her Trying to LOOK LIKE ME AS REAL DEAL, Big Guy. lolxx

[Likes2drive]

See 😊

[shortster]

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery?

[Paris13]

Can Carry it Too far as a Narcist. lolxx

[shortster]

How far is she taking it?

[Paris13]

To Social Media and Instagram? Never Has Done THIS THIS Way Before... xx

[shortster]

She is pretending to be you on social media?

[BLP11520]

Wife and Dad are that

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[BLP11520]

Well, my wife hit it fairly well until we are married. Dad’s always been that way.

[Paris13]

Ahhh Okay Then. xx

[undertaker007]

Let her and you be you, she is only affecting herself image