When's a good time to contact him?

[Anonymous]

So suppose you have sex with a guy. It's only sex; neither of you is after a relationship. On the first night, you agree to do it again soon. When's a good time to get in touch so as not to look overly eager or clingy? Is the next day too soon?

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goot = good

[LJHam]

Your question is contradictory. You say you're not after a relationship but you wanna call him w/o looking too clingy. So I'm calling bullsh*t on the not after relationship part. We girls often try to tell ourselves that lie thinking it's an easy way to get a man to spend time with her, but deep down we REALLY do want a relationship - except we don't believe we can get it, so we settle for less. If you TRULY do NOT want a relationship then the only time to call him up is when you simply want to get laid.

[Asker]

I really simply want to get laid. But because, as you say, girls tend to want a relationship I want to make sure he doesn't think I'm into more. Hence why I'm a bit hesitant to contact him now already. The thing is we don't live in the same country and only get to see each other once in a while. I'm leaving on Tuesday and so that plays a role as well. Want to get as much as I can, without looking like I want more.

[LJHam]

Then call & tell him that. And never call him for anything but sex. If he sees that's really all you want then he won't run away.

[LJHam]

Thanks for MHO.

[regenderate]

Yeah I've had a hookup again the day after when she wanted more and of course I wanted more and we both intended to remain fbuddys.

[sexyasianboi26]

lol sex must have been good.

imo, there's no fixed window. so go ahead

[Asker]

Ha, it was amazing!