How can I sugest something without upsetting her?

[Anonymous]

My best friend has been there for me through a lot. However, she just found out that she can't play her favorite sport anymore due to an extensive injury. She was nationally ranked and really loved her sport, which is softball. What are some things I could suggest she could do to stay involved with the sport she loves so much?

Also, my birthday is next week and while people are going to say happy birthday, I want to make sure I thank my friend for being the wonderful person she is. How do I thank her for always being there for me without the typical "thanks so much!"? Please help, whether it is for one or both of these questions. Thanks :)

[CrystalMinds]

Maybe if there are kids playing the sport, she could try to coach them? So she's still involved. If that is what she wants. Some people don't wanna be confronted with what they can't do anymore. So you could ask her if she still wants to be involved and go to a sportcenter (or where ever they have info about the sport) if she could coach or help with the trainer or something.

Well, a little poem is always nice. A gift, like a little teddybear with a quote on it, or a rose (yes, girls give each other flowers too ^^), or just write her a letter to thank her. Bring up memories where you know you had a rough time and she was there, how that made you feel, how you want to be there for her like she's there for you...

[Racez]

Give her a long hug, then express your feelings after that.

Plan with your friends something like a very special song for her.

Or give her something handmade by you.