How do I get a guy to be interested in me at work?

[Anonymous]

i don't know how to get his attention, I'm bad at flirting and I don't wanna come off too strong...should I just be friendly?

[WizeGuy2350]

As a general rule, it's a VERY bad idea to date or flirt with a coworker. The risk-to-reward ratio is not worth it. But with that said, if you really want to take your chances with this guy, start out by being friendly and see how much he reciprocates. You might also try going out with some of your coworkers for a drink after work, invite him along, and see how he responds. You must tread carefully here; like you said, you don't want to come on too strong in this situation.

[Asker]

im not planning on staying there for long I'm looking into new jobs...but I do sincerely like him. how can I get his number? he won't ask me =/

[WizeGuy2350]

With the sexual harassment laws we have, I'm not surprised that he hasn't asked you. If I were in your situation, I would wait until I have another job lined up. Maybe on my last day or next-to-last day, I would go for the phone number. That way, you have little or nothing to lose, since you're about to leave.

[Anonymous]

Simply start talking to him a lot, spend time with him, hang out with him, compliment him, and start being flirty to him.

[MCSchubert]

The easiest way to get attention from guys is to have a hot face and body, and dress hot with clothes that attract guys (Usually, these clothes are promiscuous/slutty).

[Asker]

:( can't really do that at work...

[Amazo]

Have you been able to speak to him at all?

[Asker]

yea we talk all the time but I don't think he's into me, he's single, how do I get his attention?

[Amazo]

Firstly you can't "get his attention". I know what you mean you want but it really isn't to plead for attention when he talks to you anyway. What you really want to do is find out if he likes you but you haven't even given him a lead to want to express it. Give him compliments and at this stage you should aim to get his number. Only flirt lightly by saying things like he looks tasty today and winking at him if you ask for a favor. But jeez girl, get his number.

[Anonymous]

have you tried giving him a lap dance?