Should I be worried about another woman?

[Kuuipo90]

My boyfriend seems to have got this thing going on. Weekends he is constantly working on his projects, on weekdays he goes out to hang out his friends at their hang out spot every night after work. Yet he never seems to make any time for me. Should I be worried that he really doesn't want me around since he never invites me to hang out after work with him, ever!? Should I be worried that there is more going on than what he says, like another woman?

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+1 y

I know that his weekend projects isn't gaming. He is working on turning a broken down jeep into a rock crawler. But it's every weekend. And when I ask for some relationship time, he huffs and puffs about it and always says no. The hang out after work isn't a big deal to me, I don't care whether he does it or not, but it's not just guys up there, it's girls too. But it's the fact he makes all this time for his friends. Plus that's why I feel it could be another girl. And he doesn't want me there

[Pedantic]

Worry?: Sure, the relationship sounds like its in trouble.

But should you worry about another woman? Well if he's the immature type who thinks its going to get him a trophy or something, maybe, but if he doesn't have you in his life right now then its probably not too much trouble to tell you to get lost before bouncing to another woman without having to bother with the usual set of risks (the other girl leaving if she learns of you, reputional damages that may impair the chick magnet, and so on).

He's could be some obssessed gamer and he's too embarassed to say that his "work" on weekends is playing, and that his "friends" are just random onliners. I know this sounds like I'm trolling your guy, but this situation actually came up once before on this website with another person and it ended up he was hiding and downplaying his gaming. Its kind of a wild guess, but probably just as plausible of him seeing another woman.

[Pedantic]

re: Update- He makes time for other girls? Bad news!

[TeamNiceGuy]

First red flag is the "weekend work" that's never a good sign :/ I don't want to for sure day what it is but the possibility of another woman is there and I believe he should be confronted about his odd behavior . Don't be too aggressive or anything just talk to him about it and figure this whole thing out. You deserve to know what's going on and if he refuses then kick him to the curb and get yourself a real man!

Second red flag is he never makes any time. Sometimes people are just busy and that's understandable but it really isn't that hard to find at least and hour to spend with your significant other :/

As for the hangouts after work, that's just guy time where all the boys can talk and hangout which is great and shouldn't be intruded on :P just like girls need their girl time.

Anyways to sum it up. His behavior is odd, don't wait any longer get to the bottom of it, be gentle and good luck :)!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he doesn't really have time for a girlfriend. If he wanted to, he would make time to be with you or at least include you. How old is he?

[Anonymous]

You already know deep down it's another woman.

Sometimes I think when a guy acts like that, it's a code word for "another woman"

[Nmxo123]

Don't overreact, nor get paranoid. Just talk to him about it, or you try asking him to go out. Maybe he just needs to see that you still care

[Anonymous]

Trust you instincts...that's not right!

[Anonymous]

yes, you should

[Anonymous]

no you should.t

[Anonymous]

yes you should