So my boyfriend of a year and I were talking tonight and we're both athletic and I mentioned I wanted to lose 10 pounds (he's skinnier than me and wants to gain 10 pounds.) I've lost 35 lbs from exercise and said that I just want to lose the last 10 lb. And he said "yeah you do eat a lot when you come over. Some times I wonder how you finish all that. If you just ate smaller portions you could lose it."
I know he's trying to be helpful but. Anytime we eat he always saves half of his meal for later. Sorry but um...most of the time I want to finish my entire plate Because I'm hungry! Honestly tho now I feel seriously self conscious eating in front of him, most of the times I just nibble.
Our sex life has always been great, we lived together for a couple months and we were doing it every day, twice a day. But now that he's said this I can't but feel self conscious about my tummy. I love my body, an extra 10lb off would be nice but I think I look good now. He's gained weight and I was like yeah but I still weigh more than you, just joking around. But he looked at me in disbelief that I actually weighed THAT much. I know he's trying to support me wanting to lose weight but now I feel like he's constantly judging me when ever I eat and it led to this huge argument with him saying clearly I don't know him at all.
I know he's trying to be helpful but. Anytime we eat he always saves half of his meal for later. Sorry but um...most of the time I want to finish my entire plate Because I'm hungry! Honestly tho now I feel seriously self conscious eating in front of him, most of the times I just nibble.
Our sex life has always been great, we lived together for a couple months and we were doing it every day, twice a day. But now that he's said this I can't but feel self conscious about my tummy. I love my body, an extra 10lb off would be nice but I think I look good now. He's gained weight and I was like yeah but I still weigh more than you, just joking around. But he looked at me in disbelief that I actually weighed THAT much. I know he's trying to support me wanting to lose weight but now I feel like he's constantly judging me when ever I eat and it led to this huge argument with him saying clearly I don't know him at all.
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