I don't usually make eye contact cause I either feel like I look bad or I don't really care who is around me. Sometimes eye contact can get kind of awkward..lol.
I never think they're actually looking at me to look at me because they're interested so I just keep my head down to avoid the embarassing ohhh, you weren't looking at me and now I'm staring at you.
not everyone who looks at you is thinking of you as a sex object. I said in another comment, I look at everyone regardless of age, aesthetics, even sex! I'm an equal opportunist looker!
I think most people do too but I would also just say that's even more of a reason to keep my head down because I'm just not sure why you're looking at me, whatever the reason. That's just how I am.
Sometimesi tend to stare at another too long and afraid the person may be unhappy soi look away. I stare because he is good looking or because I am observing him
If a man is smart,he'll be sociable with anyone who wants to be.Even the ugly girls have pretty friends.Don't just act friendly to people because you think they have something to offer.
A smile to a passing stranger isn't exactly a life-long commitment.City people seem to be afraid to smile.
No, this is creepy. I remember being afraid to shop at a grocery store because this one guy who worked there wouldn't stop looking at me and smiling every single time I was there.
For me it might be because I’m shy or it might be because I don’t feel in the mood to talk. If it’s just shyness I’ll answer you if you approach me but I won’t make the first move. But it really depends on my mood whether I feel like talking.
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I don't usually make eye contact cause I either feel like I look bad or I don't really care who is around me. Sometimes eye contact can get kind of awkward..lol.
That is a very good questions Cheesesteak. I have often wondered that myself. It will be great to hear what the Ladies have to say
well, seems to be plenty of answers!
I never think they're actually looking at me to look at me because they're interested so I just keep my head down to avoid the embarassing ohhh, you weren't looking at me and now I'm staring at you.
not everyone who looks at you is thinking of you as a sex object. I said in another comment, I look at everyone regardless of age, aesthetics, even sex! I'm an equal opportunist looker!
I think most people do too but I would also just say that's even more of a reason to keep my head down because I'm just not sure why you're looking at me, whatever the reason. That's just how I am.
Keep your head up. If you keep your head down, you may miss out on something great right in front of you. =D
I feel the exact same way! When people look at me I wonder why they would be staring at me hahah.
I usually think about other things when walking somewhere. But if I avoid eye contact on purpose, it's because it feels really awkward.
Shyness
Sometimesi tend to stare at another too long and afraid the person may be unhappy soi look away. I stare because he is good looking or because I am observing him
Try it out when you're at the supermarket.Look them in the eye from a distance,and keep looking as you walk toward them.
It's usually the pretty ones who look back and smile.
I agree.
It looks like the girls are mostly anti-social.
If a man is smart,he'll be sociable with anyone who wants to be.Even the ugly girls have pretty friends.Don't just act friendly to people because you think they have something to offer.
A smile to a passing stranger isn't exactly a life-long commitment.City people seem to be afraid to smile.
No, this is creepy. I remember being afraid to shop at a grocery store because this one guy who worked there wouldn't stop looking at me and smiling every single time I was there.
every girl is different. why the book of "Understanding women" is 8123701827610892761208976312830712089671607 pages long!
For me it might be because I’m shy or it might be because I don’t feel in the mood to talk. If it’s just shyness I’ll answer you if you approach me but I won’t make the first move. But it really depends on my mood whether I feel like talking.
Foe nits just Like a don't notice me and I didn't see you
Well I live near Boston and Bostonians are known to be rude so I don't bother making eye contact with anyone here unless I'm in the mood.
Cause I am fat and assumed most men wouldn't be interested anyways.
=\ so just out of curiosity, is eye contact always about interest, do you believe?
Not always
I'm just minding my own business, in a rush,trying to get where I am going and not in the mood for small talk.
I usually feel like (and sometimes this is confirmed) girls are either intimidated or they don't approach strangers. Or they're just busy.
Because making eye contact invites unwanted attention. How did you get to be 38 without knowing this?
They are too busy trying to make eye contact with his wallet.
and I always thought I just had a nice ass...!
1. Not interested
2. In a rush
3. Shy
4. Didn't notice him
5. Bad mood
Idk. They almost always avoid eye contact with me though
I made eye contact with a guy and apparently he was drunk and took offence to it
I'm usually just too shy
Usually shyness.
They do.