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I'm a bit confused. You say you want to flirt without acting on it, yet it also sounds like you're open to multiple partners. Flirting is fine, as long as everyone is clear as to what is being... Relationships

This would depend on whether you knew the person before the separation or not. Long distance doesn't need to be a deal breaker if a connection is already made and the person will be away for a... Dating

You're putting too much pressure on yourself. It's not up to you to do all the work. Just facilitate the other person's exploration and discovery. Show interest in wanting to see things through... Flirting

Yes, it's possible to love multiple people. We just love them in different ways for different reasons. You've given this guy a taste of what a relationship with you would be like. Now, it's time... Relationships

Just show interest and comment on what he says and does. Show him you want to see things through his eyes by showing curiosity as to the meaning behind what he says or does. I'm not saying to... Relationships

The only true failure is the failure to act. Everything can be a learning experience. The problem comes from people not learning from their experiences, preferring to maintain dysfunctional... Relationships

Before you start a conversation, determine your long-term objective. Women will often take a circuitous path, leading guys to get lost. When they are direct, it is generally criticism. Guys often... Relationships

Couples therapy can be very helpful, if you find a therapist who is open to helping the two of you discover what works best for you rather than one who pushes his/her agenda onto you. It's not... Relationships

No matter who files for divorce, you will be given the option to choose what last name you want as your legal last name. Your attorney will confirm this and eliminate your worry. If the paperwork... Relationships

It's interesting to see people's interpretations of their financial well-being, for it's not about how much we have but how well we choose to live. I've known people who make 6 figures + who... Relationships

This is more common when we rely on external forces to keep us entertained. There are always things we can do to occupy our time and help us feel productive and worthwhile. Your husband was away... Relationships

If it were safe communication, that would be one thing, but people generally aren't interested in being talked at, told what they did wrong and what they should do differently in the future. Many... Relationships

Love and hate are not opposites. The opposite of love is apathy or indifference (strong feelings/no feelings). If you see someone you don't know walking down the street, you won't love them, but... Dating

Her wording was less than ideal. "Why" tends to put people on the defensive. Maybe she wanted to know what you see in her that keeps you coming back. She may have needed some reassurance of her... Relationships

It could be he sees you as too perfect, and he fears he won't measure up... eventually disappointing you. Ask him what he sees in you and how that differs from what he sees in other females. Ask... Relationships

I think the bigger questions would be what are your reasons for yelling or nagging and what do you hope to accomplish by doing so. Your question is the same as asking why you wouldn't like being... Relationships

Focus on what you've learned from your past experiences, how that impacted you and what changes you've made as a result of that acquired knowledge. You can also share what you've learned by... Relationships

They consider how their choices impact others before they decide what to do or say. If they wouldn't appreciate being on the receiving end of what they plan to dish out, they'll come up with an... Relationships

Only share what is relevant to your relationship. How would you be improving your relationship by telling your new partner your ex-partner had a 12" cock? If you feel it is important to share... Relationships

Focus on what you bring to the relationship to keep it new and alive rather than what the other person should be doing. We can wait for life to invite us in, or we can be active participants in... Relationships