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Should I feel shy when a man pays for me?
Tell him how much you genuinely appreciate him, and offer to pay half, and if he says no, offer to pay a third. If he still says no, then it's no, but remind him that you acknowledge and... Dating
Guys, How can I politely turn someone down?
Be nice, but tell the truth, and don't leave hope or wiggle room. It's better to extinguish all hope than to allow him to think there's something he can do to change your mind.... Dating
What's the worst way to be friendzoned?
I got played like that when I was young and stupid, but I realized that I didn't have to accept that, and since about 22, if that situation happened, I just moved on. I wouldn't be uncivil, but I... Dating
What is your biggest turnoff in a person as far as dating purposes go?
There are several, but, yeah, smoking, drugs, or more than occasional social drinking are deal breakers for me. But so are people who are selfish, shallow, rude, or unappreciative. Some people... Dating
I’m trying to convince my friend to take a chance on dating a man 20 years older than her. Am I right or is she?
While I think you are absolutely right in general (men want younger women, and men her age are no exception, and it will be very difficult to find a man her age who takes her seriously), I also... Dating
How do you feel about having sex on the first date?
Most (but not all) men would take first date sex if it was offered, but most (not all) men would also immediately and permanently lower your status from "potential relationship partner" to "for... Dating
Did you know hydroxychloroquine wasn't ever scientifically serious?
No one ever claimed that hydroxychloroquine was some well-researched, approved solution for COVID. COVID was a brand new, "novel" virus strain and there was no existing treatment protocol for it.... Holidays
Does anyone bake their own Christmas cookies?
Yes, and in fact I make frosted sugar cookies that look just like the first picture. I also make snickerdoodles, peanut butter cookies with a Hershey kiss on top, and chocolate chip. I like my... Holidays
Can you really be attracted to someone's personality alone or looks definitely have to be there too?
While everyone enjoys good looks in a potential partner, it is foolish to put much emphasis on looks - though tons of people do so anyway. Looks are part of infatuation - that excitement you... Dating
Why are women to blame for men’s bad behavior?
Women are only responsible - and it's partial responsibility - for the bad behavior of men that affects the woman. Let me give you an example. Say I'm a criminal, and you hang out with me. You... Dating
Are 'traditional housewive' type women actually the ones being exploited?
I think you're confused. What makes a "traditional wife" is the tradition that she stays home to raise the kids while the man works - at least until the kids are in school full-time. This... Dating
On a first date, if you feel you're vibing with the person, is it okay to give flirty touches, or should you keep your hands to yourself?
I'd be fine with it, and I have done it with good results - though I have also NOT done it if I didn't feel like it was going to be well received. For guys, the danger is doing it in the first... Dating
Do you consider Die Hard to be a Christmas movie?
Yes. It's been my Christmas Eve movie for 30 years. A Christmas without John McClane is no Christmas at all. Hans Gruber must be stopped! No sir. You couldn't drag me away. Holidays
Why do people think there's somebody for everyone?
There isn't someone for everyone. That is straight fact. But more relevant, there's no perfect person for you - you are never going to get everything you want, and neither will anyone else.... Dating
Have you ever seen “It’s A Wonderful Life”?
Many times, and I have a copy on my media server. I might even have one of Zuzu's flower petals in my pocket. Holidays
Why do some men reject women they fancy?
"Is it because they believe that the woman doesn’t actually fancy them?" That's one possible reason. Here are some others. He's only attracted to her sexually. And while you might think he would... Dating
What's your opinion on Christmas hampers?
Other than the occasional "romantic" gift, when I buy gifts, I buy things that are useful. Crappy foodstuffs that I would never normally buy is not what I consider useful. I often buy "nice" food... Holidays
Why do men run away from the best version of themselves in ordee to get the woman?
The men you are describing are the men who have prioritized themselves their entire lives, which is why they have all the things that you find so attractive. Maybe he has good looks because he... Dating
Do female friends give good advice about men’s love lives?
Rarely. I can think of only two girls who ever gave me any good advice, and many dozens who gave terrible advice. Most women are too concerned about hurting feelings, or are just projecting their... Dating
How do you feel if you boyfriend out of sudden ditched you for an ugly girl and married her even when you're gorgeous than her?
Looks not only aren't everything, they are much less important to a committed, long-term relationship than are morals, values, and life goals. Looks won't give someone a free pass to be low value... Dating
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