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Anonymous
9 mo

How do you avoid being liked for your looks alone?

You have to look at the color of his socks... LOL. The truth is that there's no shortcut "easy way" to tell unless the guy is completely obvious about liking you only for your looks - and because... Dating

Anonymous
9 mo

Am I wrong for feeling trapped?

in my opinion, THE most important factor in relationship compatibility is that the person you are dating is LOCAL to you. Which means they could get to you within 15 minutes or less under normal... Dating

Simslover92
9 mo

Single people, how many people do you talk to at once?

I'm not single but when I was, it was never more than one at a time. I've never lived my life for chasing women, so I never spent the amount of energy on them that is necessary to balance more... Dating

DiscoTiTz2003
10 mo

What's the point of dating if not to marry?

Most people don't take marriage seriously today because of a bunch of legal changes made since the 60s that have completely undermined marriage. It used to be that marriage was for LIFE, and... Dating

Simslover92
10 mo

Do you believe that dating apps are useless for the majority of people?

If your goal is to find a real relationship, they are worse than pure random chance. That's because people don't use them to find relationship partners. Men mostly use them to find casual sex... Dating

DishLady
10 mo

Has a friend ever given you bad advice?

That's TERRIBLE advice and comes from someone who is, AT BEST, incredibly manipulative, but more likely is trying to sabotage you. This is something a lot of women do - destroy their... Dating

Anonymous
10 mo

Why do men say they like clingy women, but when a woman is clingy she’s too much?

No man wants a clingy woman. Many men want a woman who likes to be physically close and likes physical affection, and they assume that this is what you are talking about when you say "clingy", but... Dating

Sugar100
10 mo

Do guys not want nice good girls as a girlfriend? Do only club bad girls with tatttoos get a boyfriend?

Sigh. "Club bad girls" get banged a lot, but they rarely get boyfriends, and the ones who do rarely get great guys as boyfriends. It might look like it on the outside, but those "relationships"... Dating

AviatorTom
10 mo

How old were you when you had your FIRST DATE without a chaperone?

Never had a chaperone since my age got into double digits. I've always been far too independent and self-sufficient, even as a pre-teen. And I was one of the Gen-X exceptions: my parents were (and... Dating

Anonymous
10 mo

My boyfriend bought me a very expensive sweater. Would it be rude if I didn't accept it?

Tell him and tell him why. Make it clear that you really APPRECIATE it, but that the cost makes you uncomfortable (and why it does). Most men would only love and respect their girl more for saying... Dating

Anonymous
10 mo

Guys would you date a woman who doesn't watch basketball/football?

My girlfriend's only sports interest is soccer, and it's about as casual an interest as it gets. She was happy to go to a baseball game with me, but neither of us watches sports on TV. I no longer... Dating

Anonymous
10 mo

Would you date someone that gets a lot of attention?

I would not likely be interested in dating them. It's not an absolute "no" but it would have to be an exceptional situation. So many women want guys that every other woman wants and they don't... Dating

Pearl222
10 mo

Can you ever stay "just friends" with someone you used to date?

Almost never. Do rare exceptions exist? Of course, but most of the time it's not the exception, it's the rule. This is why relationships need to be taken seriously - you normally only get one... Dating

Pearl222
10 mo

Men, when you are in love or dating someone, how often do you want to see/talk to the woman you love?

I like to see her in person as much as reasonably possible, which is typically 3-5 days a week. I want the part of our relationship that happens on the phone (calls or texts) to be as close to... Dating

AviatorTom
10 mo

Guys, For a First Date, do you ask her if she wants to go out with you or ask her about a specific date?

I learned decades ago that a specific time and activity got far better results than just open-ended date requests. But you should have a couple of backup activities as alternatives, just in case. Dating

Petite_girlie
11 mo

What is your preferred hair color on a girl?

I've always had a thing for natural redheads, so in some "ideal" world, it would be that. Back in reality, I've never really cared that much about the color as long as it was a naturally-occurring... Dating

Anonymous
11 mo

Is taking too long to reply to texts a legit reason to dump someone?

Is he a student on a break, or taking 3 credits a semester? Is he unemployed? If so, then you might have a case. But if he has a real job or a real school schedule, then, yes, he's busy. And if he... Dating

Anonymous
11 mo

Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn’t want to dress up with me?

Some guys are just really practical and being "fun" at the expensive of practicality just isn't their style. Others, of course, put a higher priority on fun, and sometimes not enough priority on... Dating

Anonymous
11 mo

Can guys pick up on the hints that girls are making the first move?

Guys do not pick up on "hints." We don't communicate in "hints" and that's not how our minds work at all. We communicate directly, and say what we mean. When we're talking to other men, we don't... Dating

Pearl222
11 mo

How do you deal with the paradox of choice on dating apps?

The abundance of choice is largely an illusion. A relationship with someone who isn't local to you isn't very likely to work out. You might get past the initial steps in the process, but rarely... Dating

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