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Do guys not want nice good girls as a girlfriend? Do only club bad girls with tatttoos get a boyfriend?
Sigh. "Club bad girls" get banged a lot, but they rarely get boyfriends, and the ones who do rarely get great guys as boyfriends. It might look like it on the outside, but those "relationships"... Dating
How old were you when you had your FIRST DATE without a chaperone?
Never had a chaperone since my age got into double digits. I've always been far too independent and self-sufficient, even as a pre-teen. And I was one of the Gen-X exceptions: my parents were (and... Dating
My boyfriend bought me a very expensive sweater. Would it be rude if I didn't accept it?
Tell him and tell him why. Make it clear that you really APPRECIATE it, but that the cost makes you uncomfortable (and why it does). Most men would only love and respect their girl more for saying... Dating
Guys would you date a woman who doesn't watch basketball/football?
My girlfriend's only sports interest is soccer, and it's about as casual an interest as it gets. She was happy to go to a baseball game with me, but neither of us watches sports on TV. I no longer... Dating
Would you date someone that gets a lot of attention?
I would not likely be interested in dating them. It's not an absolute "no" but it would have to be an exceptional situation. So many women want guys that every other woman wants and they don't... Dating
Can you ever stay "just friends" with someone you used to date?
Almost never. Do rare exceptions exist? Of course, but most of the time it's not the exception, it's the rule. This is why relationships need to be taken seriously - you normally only get one... Dating
Men, when you are in love or dating someone, how often do you want to see/talk to the woman you love?
I like to see her in person as much as reasonably possible, which is typically 3-5 days a week. I want the part of our relationship that happens on the phone (calls or texts) to be as close to... Dating
Guys, For a First Date, do you ask her if she wants to go out with you or ask her about a specific date?
I learned decades ago that a specific time and activity got far better results than just open-ended date requests. But you should have a couple of backup activities as alternatives, just in case. Dating
What is your preferred hair color on a girl?
I've always had a thing for natural redheads, so in some "ideal" world, it would be that. Back in reality, I've never really cared that much about the color as long as it was a naturally-occurring... Dating
Is taking too long to reply to texts a legit reason to dump someone?
Is he a student on a break, or taking 3 credits a semester? Is he unemployed? If so, then you might have a case. But if he has a real job or a real school schedule, then, yes, he's busy. And if he... Dating
Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn’t want to dress up with me?
Some guys are just really practical and being "fun" at the expensive of practicality just isn't their style. Others, of course, put a higher priority on fun, and sometimes not enough priority on... Dating
Can guys pick up on the hints that girls are making the first move?
Guys do not pick up on "hints." We don't communicate in "hints" and that's not how our minds work at all. We communicate directly, and say what we mean. When we're talking to other men, we don't... Dating
How do you deal with the paradox of choice on dating apps?
The abundance of choice is largely an illusion. A relationship with someone who isn't local to you isn't very likely to work out. You might get past the initial steps in the process, but rarely... Dating
If a girl says, "I don't want to lead you on," is that permanent rejection?
Yes. Accept the truth and move on. One of the hardest lessons to learn as an adult is that you can't control or change how someone feels about you. No matter how strong your own feelings are,... Dating
Is it a good idea to date a woman who's crazy?
Hotness doesn't last. Crazy only grows. Crazy women will key your car or slash your tires. They'll stalk your ex's or even some girl you don't remember but held a door open for. They will... Dating
As a woman trying dating apps for the first time, what precautions should be kept in mind before meeting guys?
Dating apps are a bad idea unless all you are looking for is casual sex Most men who are looking for a serious relationship are not on the apps at all. They have been driven away by ever... Dating
Are you a player? Do you think players are capable of feeling remorse? And if you are a player, why do you do it?
I've known many players over the years, and one thing that was consistent among all of them is that they had no respect at all for women. They knew how to charm women, for sure, but they gave zero... Dating
I’m afraid of getting into a relationship but at the same time I want one. What should I do?
A lot of what you fear is the result of making poor choices and rushing into a relationship based purely on feelings. That's usually a path towards disaster, but it's also what most people do.... Dating
What actually shifts in a relationship when a woman has her own money?
Men don't really care how much money a woman makes. Instead, they care whether the woman is operating in a grounded reality and a consistent set of expectations. For example, most women, no... Dating
Would you be interested in dating a woman that wears revealing clothes or would you be turned off by it?
Most of those clothes in the links I don't consider OVERLY revealing, but some of them also need to be appropriate for the area/occasion. For example, summertime in California or Miami or Texas is... Dating
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