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Anonymous
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Why do men on dating apps continue to use pictures of themselves from their younger days when they had hair, but don’t have any hair now?

How many women use makeup, fake hair, filters, hold their camera from a high angle, and frame the picture so only their face is seen? I bet there are 500 of those for every bald guy with an old... Dating

Anonymous
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Is wanting a traditional lifestyle with a wealthy man, a gold digger?

There's a huge difference between wanting a traditional "stay at home" lifestyle, and in wanting that with a WEALTHY man. First, the number of wealthy men is relatively small, so there aren't... Dating

tischro
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Do you think it's okay to give a guy flowers as a gift on a first date?

While most guys would appreciate the thought, the simple fact is that most men have no desire to receive flowers as a gift (yes, a few exceptions exist). Would you want a socket set for your... Dating

Anonymous
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Men, do you like spending your money on women?

Men enjoy taking care of our woman (and family), even though it can be a lot of pressure at times. One of the ways men show love is through providing and other acts of service. We're not good at... Dating

Anonymous
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How long is too long (the point you need to forget them ) when waiting for a text back?

People put WAY too much importance on text messages. If you have something important or time sensitive, CALL the person. If you text them, you have no idea what is going on in their life, and they... Dating

Still-alive
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Girls if a guy stood outside your window holding up an 80s style boombox playing Peter Gabriels ‘In your Eyes’ would you be wooed?

Trivia: director Cameron Crowe hadn't found the song he wanted for the famous boom box scene, so during filming, they used a Fishbone song as a placeholder. When he heard In Your Eyes, he knew it... Dating

Anonymous
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I want to fall in love and I’m insanely jealous of people in relationships. Why can’t I fall in love with anyone romantically?

You need some therapy - something makes you uncomfortable with physical intimacy, and that fear drives you to push people away. This is a mental health problem, but you can think of it as being... Dating

Anonymous
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If a man cheats once, will he do it again?

Cheating is never okay, but perhaps it might be forgiven if he wasn't seeking it but an attractive girl came onto him in a moment of weakness, and if he immediately admitted it to you and was... Dating

Anonymous
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If guys said no flat girls I only date C cups or bigger.. or If he said no chunky chicks size 6 and under only would you think he’s shallow?

It IS just as shallow, of course. But in modern society, women are cheered on if they have preferences or standards for men, while men are shamed and guilted if they have preferences or standards... Dating

Anonymous
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What can you learn from rejection and how can you get better?

The single biggest thing you can learn is that rejection won't kill you. Sure, it's never fun, but it's also not nearly as bad if you are smart about it. The problem most guys make is that the... Dating

passenger
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He said we aren't compatible in our first date. Do you think he didn't like me?

The purpose of your first few dates with someone is to determine if the two of you have long-term compatibility - at least for people who are dating seriously. And it's not uncommon to discover... Dating

laurlaur101
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Why is it so hard to find a good guy?

Finding a good partner is hard for everyone, but I can tell you what most women do wrong. You can only find a good partner if your choosing criteria is their morals, values, and life goals, but... Dating

Anonymous
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Is a movie a good first date or boring?

in my opinion, your first few dates are for determining whether or not you have long-term compatibility with this new person, so that you don't get too attached or waste each other's time if you... Dating

Jemini_Crocket
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What type of clothes do you like to see your date wear on a first casual date?

My preference would be a casual dress (sun dress) on her if weather allows - which means 3 out of 4 seasons here in California - but I'm also fine with jeans/shorts and a T-shirt or whatever. As... Dating

Anonymous
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As a man, would you find it weird that I have a lot of exes?

If you have a lot of exs, and especially if they all seem to have the same problem, it's because YOU are picking them and YOU are not vetting them properly. And if you don't address this, nothing... Dating

purplepoppy
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Does online dating lower your self-esteem?

I've never personally used online dating, but I've tried helping friends who insisted on using it, and I've read some of the profiles, and the whole thing is just a dumpster fire. Who wins? The... Dating

Anonymous
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When a guy says 'we could be friends and see what happens?' How often is it the case that he wants anything more?

With only rare exceptions, single men (or men not getting laid frequently) are NOT looking to be "just friends" with women. They might say that, but their motivation is relationship-oriented... Dating

Anonymous
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Would a 26 year old female still feel like a girl/ kid to a guy in his 40s and 50s?

That's almost entirely up to her and how she carries herself. If she presents herself as a grown woman, who is confidently and competently going about her life, virtually every man will treat her... Dating

Anonymous
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Turned off by how my boyfriend looks sometimes, why can’t he make an effort?

"I've tried to give him hints" WRONG!!! If you want to tell a woman something, you can give her hints, but hints are not how men communicate, and it's not what men understand. Do you want to keep... Dating

Anonymous
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Is this just not an excuse not to date me?

When a man gives you this kind of warning, LISTEN TO HIM. He is being honest and if you continue, what he is warning you about is very likely to come to pass. Do NOT think you can change him - you... Dating

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