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Do you think a relationship built on traditional values, traditional gender roles, and traditional expectations is "old fashioned" in a bad way?

I have heard an argument that wanting a traditional relationship built on traditional gender roles and traditional expectations is "old...

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Have you ever discovered your partner's infidelity years after it happened?

I recently heard an account of a man who learned, after 20 years of marriage and 2 children, that his wife had sex with his best man the night...

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Have you ever had a successful relationship that began as cheating on your prior partner?

Almost always, when I hear about someone cheating, the follow-up story is that when the cheater and their then-current partner broke up, the...

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Are there different degrees of cheating?

Sometimes, when confronted with unfaithfulness, cheaters will defends themselves by saying - It only happened once, or - I was drunk and didn't...

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Do you think you qualify to be a trophy husband or trophy wife?

A trophy wife or husband is someone who has leveraged their physical attractiveness to find a spouse who may be less attractive, or older, but who...

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Have you ever proposed marriage and been rejected, or received a proposal and then rejected it?

I proposed to my now-wife on Friday, March 10, 2023 around 6:30 pm in the Bonefish Grill in Gainesville, Florida. Just like in the movies from the...

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Can you name the country?

Inspired, of course, by @AviatorTom: Can you name a country whose name, in English, contain all five vowels? (Without cheating!)

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What about "transgender men"?

"Trans man" means born female, now trying to be a man. Why don't any of these people play/compete in men's sports? Please address the specific...

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Is infidelity or cheating a sufficient reason to end a relationship?

Maybe the reason some people cheat and others don't is that some of us consider cheating to be a horrible and unforgivable breach of trust, while...

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If you ever cheated on a partner, did you think that your cheating would remain a secret forever?

I've never cheaated on anyone, but been the victim of cheating twice in 53 years of dating, relationships and marriage. The first time, my...

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Is there anything on your phone that you would not want your partner to see?

I never delete phone numbers so I still have my exes' phone numbers on my phone, but my history would show that the last time I called any of them...

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Are you okay with dating someone who maintains an active platonic relationship with a former sexual or dating partner?

I have had platonic relationships with the opposite sex and I can honestly say that I never wanted to have sex with the women who had always been...

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Do you think you should surrender some of your digital privacy to your romantic partner?

I have my phone password protected but face recognition eliminates the inconvenience created by the added security. I have it protected because...

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Is it acceptable for a girl to slap a guy? Is it grounds for a break up or divorce?

If a guy slapped or hit his female partner, almost all of us would insist that such behavior is unacceptable and we would agree that it was...

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At what point do you introduce your romantic partner to your family?

I have introduced several girlfriends to my parents and siblings. Eventually, I would prepare them with this warning: "After you meet my parents,...

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Do you love dancing at weddings?

I am not asking about dancing at YOUR wedding, when you are the bride or the groom. I am asking about dancing at a wedding where you are simply an...

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Is being in a long term relationship "boring?" And if it's boring, is that good, bad, or both?

I have often heard someone try to justify cheating by claiming that their relationship had become boring and they needed some excitement. I think...

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Do you think there are any circumstances under which you would cheat on a partner?

I have spent years dating, in monogamous relationships, and in marriage, and I never cheated on a partner. Not once. But I would never claim that...

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Girls, did your father slip from #1 man to #2 man when you lost your virginity?

If you grew up with your father in the home, and if you had a good relationship with him, then he probably was the most important man in your...

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Have you ever forgiven a cheating partner and continued the relationship? How did that work out?

I think most people subscribe to the conventional wisdom: once a cheater, always a cheater. And if their partner cheated, they would immediately...

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