Sadly the wrong people do come in our lives. And we end up thinking their is no hope and everyone will do us the same. But after some time you will defiantly be ok. I had that same thought and everyone was the same. Until someone came and prove me wrong. But I've been thier before. a lot of people are just assholes for no reason. And don't appreciate what they have.
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Things that always happen in marriage: 1) Both guys/girls start letting themselves go 2) Sex becomes less passionate and decreases over time to point you only get it once a month. 3) Nagging/barking orders and belittling of man becomes increasingly worse each year. 4) High chance your wife is getting porked behind your back, or masturbating instead of wanting to have sex with you.
@aliencreature as humans are capable of higher reasoning, we are not slaves to our biology. He still wants women in his life, even if he hates them. Why?
Really? Try to live without eating or sleeping or drinking anything, try to just logic yourself out of death, why not make yourself asexual? Clearly sexual urges are things people just naturally control, if you don't want them you won't have them
Fine, sexual feelings are uncontrollable is that betterment, vent thiugh you damn well knew what I meant and are doing this derailing bs because of that?
Isn't it annoying to have a conversation derailed by unhelpful people, child? I love doing this to little misogynists, if only to use their own tricks against them. In any case, what @gray_sailor said is probably the best reasoning you'll get from this MRA crowd.
@GirlScout You basically insulted two people for no reason. I have the right to express my view and tell you that it is not necessary. Wasn't so difficult :]
@GirlScout No. I'm not immature to throw personal attacks to people just because I disagree with their view. Yes, what they did was also wrong, one of them called her a sociopath and the other one called her a little idiot, but the difference is that they provided information to their reasoning as you did not, which means all you did is fueled flames.
I'm neutral here. I'll try to put the flames out if I can.
you should learn from your pimpin-ass friend... how to get women... then go out and do it without him!!! Because he is gonna block your ass... Women flock to the best! not his Fault! I should tell this to my guy friends... well fuck it.. I'm just gonna listen to Marley... "Emancipate yourself from mental slavery... None but ourselves can free Our Minds!!!"
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Why would any woman get married? I'm generally curious. All she's told is to stay faithful to dude that would most likely cheat. Lose her identify just to take his name. Get pregnant just to get fat and ugly, only to go home to a unappreciated husband that doesn't feel attracted to her anymore. Even though she did all the work during and after the pregnancy...
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Why would any woman ever get married? like seriously he'll just cheat on you because he has no self control and most probably will go for any girl who flirts with him or tries to seduce him, i would say all women have incredible self control and all men are cheaters but not all people are the same.
Says the little girl that relies on ad hominem attacks because she can't even debate someone. Did I say all women, of course not, however, on average, yeah, men get fucked over in marriage far far more, they should be more willing to preserve themselves rather than be slaves to old, useless traditions
Let's be real, you need to be married to be told everything's your fault... I deal with bs like that 24/7... in fact, that's why I can't wait to merry the woman I love... so I'll no longer have to deal with the bs now... ill be finally free to enjoy life.
Your entire premise is false. Not all marriages fail, and out of those that do, not all can be blamed on the woman. If you don't want to get married, that's fine. But that's not a reason.
Well, that's not true. There will always be people who aren't loyal, but I can tell you that personally I have never cheated on anyone and I'm not going to do this too. It's too horrible.
First of all I'm 16. second of all, it's not about the age, it's about who you are. There are 14 years old cheaters and they will stay this way probably forever bc that's just who they are. Personally, I'm not one of them and never will be. And if you truly don't believe in true love, or at least in trust, that's probably bc you've never had one of these. Still, it does exist.
While I do think this is a troll, I agree it is impossible to trust someone/anyone fully. However, I understand full time commitment and think being with someone you love is one of the greatest things in life.
There's a lot of good women out there though too, just depends how well you know her. If you see her friends, and see how they act, usually she would act the same as them. You just got to observe them I guess.
That's such a terrible attitude, not all girls are like that. If you want to find true love, you gotta put yourself out there and that sometimes means getting hurt and being vulnerable, but in the end thats how you find love
Pretty true and very wise coming from someone your age, I wished I had known better but we all get lonely and I thought she was the one and took a chance and now I'm back to lonely with more problems than I had being single so it's definitely not for everyone
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I'm sorry that happened to you, man, but, hey, there's always hope, right?
Seriously? dude, its not that bad and that scenario happens in dating. after marriage, its a lot worse than that. trust me. one or two bad experiences isn't reason enough to cut the whole idea.
she'll just cheat on you... not necessarily true waste of time... don't see how it's a waste of time. there are certainly far greater wastes of time like (no offense) this site
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Sadly the wrong people do come in our lives. And we end up thinking their is no hope and everyone will do us the same. But after some time you will defiantly be ok. I had that same thought and everyone was the same. Until someone came and prove me wrong. But I've been thier before. a lot of people are just assholes for no reason. And don't appreciate what they have.
Things that always happen in marriage:
1) Both guys/girls start letting themselves go
2) Sex becomes less passionate and decreases over time to point you only get it once a month.
3) Nagging/barking orders and belittling of man becomes increasingly worse each year.
4) High chance your wife is getting porked behind your back, or masturbating instead of wanting to have sex with you.
The last time I checked the stats men cheat more in marriages than women
You should check again
https://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040
That is just one survey, I have seen others where men are claimed to be the gender who cheats more in a marriage.
If women are so awful, why do you want them so badly?
Biology
@aliencreature as humans are capable of higher reasoning, we are not slaves to our biology. He still wants women in his life, even if he hates them. Why?
Really? Try to live without eating or sleeping or drinking anything, try to just logic yourself out of death, why not make yourself asexual? Clearly sexual urges are things people just naturally control, if you don't want them you won't have them
Sexual urges *are* things people control, otherwise public rape would occur daily in broad daylight.
Fine, sexual feelings are uncontrollable is that betterment, vent thiugh you damn well knew what I meant and are doing this derailing bs because of that?
Isn't it annoying to have a conversation derailed by unhelpful people, child? I love doing this to little misogynists, if only to use their own tricks against them. In any case, what @gray_sailor said is probably the best reasoning you'll get from this MRA crowd.
You don't control your feelings, you control how to express them. This clearly coming from a woman who has zero emotional intelligence
@aliencreature Right, and I'm the one insulting people. Chus, boys.
I highly suggest that you refrain from ever speaking to a man again, because you're clearly incapable of doing it without trying to hurt them
@GirlScout LOL!
@9mfeo touché my dear
obviously not about you @9mfeo!
@GirlScout That wasn't really necessary.
@Calex who died and made you king of what's necessary? It isn't necessary for this question to be asked but you're cool with that.
@GirlScout You basically insulted two people for no reason. I have the right to express my view and tell you that it is not necessary. Wasn't so difficult :]
@Calex I insulted them because they were being pricks, are you joining in?
@GirlScout No. I'm not immature to throw personal attacks to people just because I disagree with their view. Yes, what they did was also wrong, one of them called her a sociopath and the other one called her a little idiot, but the difference is that they provided information to their reasoning as you did not, which means all you did is fueled flames.
I'm neutral here. I'll try to put the flames out if I can.
I've read the posts again and man.. people don't know how to sit down and have a mature talk/debate without resorting to name calls.
Take it easy people! You'll get nowhere by being aggressive towards other people. Mutual understanding will never work if you attack each other.
@Calex I only fight back...
you should learn from your pimpin-ass friend... how to get women... then go out and do it without him!!! Because he is gonna block your ass... Women flock to the best! not his Fault! I should tell this to my guy friends... well fuck it.. I'm just gonna listen to Marley... "Emancipate yourself from mental slavery... None but ourselves can free Our Minds!!!"
Why would any woman get married? I'm generally curious. All she's told is to stay faithful to dude that would most likely cheat. Lose her identify just to take his name. Get pregnant just to get fat and ugly, only to go home to a unappreciated husband that doesn't feel attracted to her anymore. Even though she did all the work during and after the pregnancy...
Why would any woman ever get married?
like seriously he'll just cheat on you because he has no self control and most probably will go for any girl who flirts with him or tries to seduce him, i would say all women have incredible self control and all men are cheaters but not all people are the same.
Bitter male syndrome.
Lol he's downvoting everyone 😂👏
@RainbowFanGirl Really? So, I'm capable of giving multiple downvotes to one person?
@RainbowFanGirl a defensive mechanism for the shitty personality. 😄
ahah 😂👍
Says the little girl that relies on ad hominem attacks because she can't even debate someone. Did I say all women, of course not, however, on average, yeah, men get fucked over in marriage far far more, they should be more willing to preserve themselves rather than be slaves to old, useless traditions
Okay little neckbeard 👀
Lol! Yes @Bards! Yes!
I don't talk to you as much as I would like Bards, but you're my hero lmao
You should definitely stay single, honestly
Yet another ad hominem attack in the absence of proof or logic
Actually, it's a simple statement.
With your attitude I pity any woman who'd date you til your wounds are healed.
He's just angry. It does not mean that he should stay single just because he's expressing his anger. That's just that.
@Calex that's kind of you. However, I don't really care to pander to peoples emotional mood swings.
Two wrongs don't make a right :]
Everyone is a contributor to society!
@Calex No not everyone is. Ask Dick Cheney.
Marriage doesn't have to be negative; it doesn't always turn out crappy.
Lots of people share a lifetime of love. It just sounds like that hasn't been modeled for you by anybody.
Let's be real, you need to be married to be told everything's your fault... I deal with bs like that 24/7... in fact, that's why I can't wait to merry the woman I love... so I'll no longer have to deal with the bs now... ill be finally free to enjoy life.
don't need to be married
@KILER1000
Send me a PM please, I need to ask you something.
Your entire premise is false. Not all marriages fail, and out of those that do, not all can be blamed on the woman.
If you don't want to get married, that's fine. But that's not a reason.
Well, that's not true. There will always be people who aren't loyal, but I can tell you that personally I have never cheated on anyone and I'm not going to do this too. It's too horrible.
You're 15, you don't know that
First of all I'm 16. second of all, it's not about the age, it's about who you are. There are 14 years old cheaters and they will stay this way probably forever bc that's just who they are.
Personally, I'm not one of them and never will be. And if you truly don't believe in true love, or at least in trust, that's probably bc you've never had one of these. Still, it does exist.
While I do think this is a troll, I agree it is impossible to trust someone/anyone fully. However, I understand full time commitment and think being with someone you love is one of the greatest things in life.
There's a lot of good women out there though too, just depends how well you know her. If you see her friends, and see how they act, usually she would act the same as them. You just got to observe them I guess.
That's such a terrible attitude, not all girls are like that. If you want to find true love, you gotta put yourself out there and that sometimes means getting hurt and being vulnerable, but in the end thats how you find love
NAWALT
NAWALT alert
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=asIywy9rLr4
@aliencreature well its true, not all women are like that
Pretty true and very wise coming from someone your age, I wished I had known better but we all get lonely and I thought she was the one and took a chance and now I'm back to lonely with more problems than I had being single so it's definitely not for everyone
I'm sorry that happened to you, man, but, hey, there's always hope, right?
Yeah thanks but that's all I can do is hope
I know the way I feel right now I never want to get married but that is not because of what you have said here but other reasons.
Seriously? dude, its not that bad and that scenario happens in dating. after marriage, its a lot worse than that. trust me. one or two bad experiences isn't reason enough to cut the whole idea.
she'll just cheat on you... not necessarily true
waste of time... don't see how it's a waste of time. there are certainly far greater wastes of time like (no offense) this site