What should I do if my girl isn't comfortable with kissing?

[bigbang101]

We will be marrying after 2 months. And we haven't kissed each other. But she told me she doesn't like it! Plus she's a virgin

[Anonymous]

Wow, what ignorant and judgmental comments here, especially from the men! (No surprise though considering where this is, haha)

Since she is uncomfortable kissing, ask her why and see if there is anything you can do or say to ease her into getting more comfortable with kisses: maybe a peck on the cheek, kiss her hand, kiss her forehead- basically see if she would be okay with those kinds of kisses/contact. Then ease into a peck on the lips when the time is right. Obviously do not force it, but the important thing is to make her feel loved and comfortable, yet happy.

If she still is against kissing, find other ways to show your affection to her! Hugs, cuddling, hand holding. I am sure she will eventually want to kiss you, just take things slow.

[bigbang101]

Wonderful, very helpful! (Especially the ignorant anf the judgmental part lol) ❤
Thanks!

[BluesheepOwl]

Respect her wishes. You can make up for it in the bedroom

[btbc92]

You will kiss on your wedding day. Be respectful of who she is and have patience with her. If you getting so impatient and maybe you need to find yourself somebody else so that way she can find somebody who's actually going to love her and respect her. It sounds like to me you are not happy with the fact that she's a virgin and sexually inexperienced besides not wanting to kiss just yet. Sounds like to me that you two are just not compatible.

[MollyTheOriginal]

Ask her why? It's one thing if it is a normal part of your culture, but if she genuinely doesn't like it, it sounds like she wouldn't want sex, and that can spell intimacy problems long term in the marriage. I would figure these things out before you decide to marry her and make a potential big mistake.

[bigbang101]

She doesn't have any problem with sex! 🤣

[MollyTheOriginal]

Something wrong with that girl then lmao

[bigbang101]

Hahaha

[Anonymous]

There's a mental disorder to do with a fear of kissing, best get her used to it e. g kissing her forehead, if on the wedding day she still isn't ready then kiss her lightly on her lips or cheeks, either way I'd recommend a therapist/psychiatrist before or after your marriage.

[LoU_Hades]

I believe she doesn't like kissing because she know it's a danger for her virginity.
Romantic and passionate kissing on mouth, ear and neck and you get her.

[elite665]

Ask her what will happen after marriage I understand cultural things but if she is not gonna be a great... wife you know in the bed then like I don't know man

[smg99]

She’s waiting otherwise she would have given away her essence to you and might that make you reconsider marrying her.

[bigbang101]

No no. You didn't get the question... She doesn't like kissing...

[smg99]

Yes that will tempt her

[TheHillsRAlive]

Practice practice... Kiss her all the time... Tell her you love how she kisses... 😏

[MusicMayhem]

A girl that doesn't kiss you isn't called a girlfriend, she's called a friend.

Find another girl.

I'm guessing unlike her you're a normal human being that wants to kiss, have sex, intimacy etc. If that's the case you need to move on and take control of your dating life cause right now she's calling the shots.

Heck she might just be using you for company when she's bored, to get free gifts, meals etc and is actually fucking other guys on the side...

[bigbang101]

Hahahah its not what you think. I know what you are thinking and I've been in those kinds of situations.
Its not that she doesn't want to kiss me, she just doesn't like it. For instance many guys out there love their s/o but they dont want to eat their pussy... (just for the sake of example)
Do u get me now?

[MusicMayhem]

Kissing is the most basic form of affection though. Eating pussy is more niche. A guy might not like it cause of the smell or pubic hairs if she doesn't trim making him gag which is fair enough.

It's just weird man, like she's got intimacy issues. Or she's super shy/conservative and hasn't matured as an adult.

[Browneye57]

You'll marry into a life of misery. Good luck. Looks like you'll need it.
Man, that pussy must really be something. ;)

[tonicandgin]

Don't slobber and tongue like crazy thats a start

[bigbang101]

The most sensible comment till now... 😄

[Redstang88]

Why the fuck would you marry a girl you haven’t even kissed yet?

[bigbang101]

Its a cultural thing. We dont kiss or hug or do stuff before marraige... We arnt Europeans or Americans! Lol

[Redstang88]

That’s insane, but do what you want I guess

[bigbang101]

I didn't ask for your judgement for whether our culture is insane or not. I asked for an answer...

[Redstang88]

Just saying, maybe you should rethink the marriage if you’re obviously not compatible

[bigbang101]

Haha thanks for the suggestion!

[Gabriella90]

Try hand holding get her to relax and comfortable with you.

[Thatsamazing]

Uh... I dunno man sorry about your luck, because that doesn't sound like a good situation. You're marrying her and you've never kissed her? Damn.

[Paris13]

Make sure before you Sign a Potential Death Warrant You See about Your "BOUQUET BAE.":((xx

[Anonymous]

It is late but go to her and talk. And how can she dislikes kissing if she never kiss and why do you even mention her being virgin. Like that is irrelevant to your question and also rude to your "girl".

[Opinion Owner]

I did not mean to offend here anybody and how can I delete my comments

[Mullakkajokes]

Then dont kiss her.
Maybe she's a girl with family values. You should wait until marriage.

[Anonymous]

I've no idea. If you're getting married I personally see no reason not to, but I'm not her. Ask her.

[Anonymous]

That’s probably a red flag and maybe you shouldn’t be marrying her but is this an arranged marriage maybe?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m actually concerned about you about how she will be About sex since she is a virgin and can’t even kiss you, you may be headed for a marriage without sex

[WhoDatGuy]

Get a doll to kiss instead 😂😂😂

[BeHappy1985]

Brush your teeth bruh.

[Nachowedgie]

You're wasting your time

[PrincessGrail]

That’s really bad

[Ultimate_Gohan]

Get someone else

[Ámayas_20]

Get a new girl

[Thatsamazing]

This.