Should a woman change her last name after marriage? (Page 4)

[vondam]

It's not like they don't have a choice, so it's all down to personal preference. You can even double barrel the names of you want to I think that is a nice touch by the merging of two families.

[Calming_wave]

Yes, or how you are going to claim your identity and brand that you are under.

[imverycurious]

I don't think it's necessary. It justs impkies property!
Trust should be mutual without any obligations.

[hahahmm]

80% of divorces are initiated by the wife. She takes half his stuff and the house typically. You know, the stuff he worked for (cause women seldom marry down and take their chances with guys who have less resources than she has). It's not asking too much for her to change her name if she has the ability to take all of that any day she wants to for any reason. No way are 80% of husbands actually the scumbags those divorcees make them out to be.

[imverycurious]

The regulatioms are shitty.

[Blitzkrieg_88]

Depends on whether she wants too and whether or not her husband will accept if she doesn't.

[mellowman]

There is a big list of stuff you have to talk about before walking that aisle and that is one.

[donnny2367764]

Should a woman expect him to wear his wedding right as well?

[ArfatShemantoLibra]

Keep her name + add the new name at the last... problem solved... I don't get why its such an issue.

[curiouslyhere]

She should do whatever she wishes to do. It's her name.

[heythere3xx]

I would use my last name and my husband's last name together.

[broncobryan]

Well she doesn't have too. Its tradition that she take her husband's last name.

[SissyFrenchMaid]

I think it shouldn't be necessary tor w woman to change her name

[JimboGB]

Yes, you are uniting two families. This is symbolic of the two families deepening ties.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Yes. A parasite should at least take its host's name.

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

If she wants to but I wouldn't ask my spouse to do that.

[richyone]

Of course unless she don't want to show her man and his family respect

[CubsterShura]

So you should also be changing your surname then, to show her respect and love. Or are only women supposed to be showing that?

[richyone]

Marge is two people forming a family i find it amazing that any one can find an argument like yours to be sustainable there's century's of precident and tridation to support the triditional wife swaps to husband's name. The husband who again traditionally has sworn to support his new wife and if U like it or not and wages are usually higher your argument also craas issues for children born are u suggesting flip a coin to see which family they belong to? Sometimes arguing for the sake of it is pointless and time consuming. Would you expect your husband to change to your sernname raise his children with a different last name to him?

[CubsterShura]

Lmao what? Tradition? You know, the Chinese also got a tradition of women crushing their feet so I guess we need to carry on with backdated practices for the sake of it right? Knowing the parents? Lol just ask a kid what's their father's name or mother's name they can answer right away.

[richyone]

Sorry but at 18 you have no clue your oroving your ignorance and aragrance but stay strong sister because the world needs femanatzies to erode the traditions and the fabric of society itself

[CubsterShura]

Oh shut up, you're only 49 and we have been existing longer than you did. By we I mean people who don't bother about last name and nothing ever happened to us. My parents have different names, my siblings and I all have different names, and so do everyone here and it's never bothered anyone.

Merge surname to create a family because it's amazing? Is this why y'all's divorce rate is higher than ours?

[kim45456]

You are old motherfuckers 49. Who tf will marry you

[Anonymous]

I don’t think so. I have both my parents last names, and I have to write both last names when I’m doing important documents.

[bigBuck85]

Traditionally yes but it is an archaic tradition that doesn't really matter anymore

[ryancreams]

If she likes her spouse's last name better than go for it, it's her choice.

[NatalieKeller95]

do you think the last name Yablonski would be an acceptable choice?

[ryancreams]

@NatalieKeller95 Not my favorite, but surely acceptable

[chaeyoungswife]

I don't think it really matters, in the end its up to the bride.

[Amur8711]

That's up to her, I'd be honored if she did. However I guess I alre5am honored for having her.

[AL1994ind]

I would actually change my last name

[Amur8711]

🥰😊❤ thanks babe!