It really depends if I have a lot more than them and since I have children that would have to be considered too so I could leave them something. Marriage is just a contract so what’s wrong with another contract
As long as the pre-nup is not completely one sided, then yes, I would be fine with that. If all the restrictions are on me, and only protected him, then no, I could not agree to that.
Well, I’m assuming you’ve never even had a girlfriend, considering you don’t treat women as actual individuals with their own minds and opinions. So, I can only say this is just some recent thing you heard about and are raging against women in general with because you think it is something they have no defense against.
To pretend this is not a legit question is foolishness of the highest magnitude. How can someone who has never kissed a girl give honest insight into marriage and divorce?
i would be fine i bought my own home at an early age and paid it off, have my own car, work etc so i have my own things, def not marrying for anything but him emotionally and physically
Nope. People who are hedging against divorce shouldn't ever get married in the first place. They don't trust their partner. And if there is no trust, there is no love. So why get married at all?
Interesting assumption that prenups are there to protect the man's assets from the woman. How bout women with assets to protect? Personally i'd happily sign one, work out financials and custody of kids before things get nasty following break up.
If a woman refused to sign a prenup that would make me think she wasn’t too serious and was leaving herself an out rather than work on the relationship.
I'm not sure honestly. I think I would definitely want that conversation before proposing though, see what her answers are like. I do love my money, so I would think any woman I'd marry knows that.
You can write the prenup so it only kicks in if the wealth is over a certain amount. Although, I'd say if you're married and one of you buys a lottery ticket it should be shared by both. Things change when you get married & something like that isn't like you put in 60 hours/week on a job for 3-5 years to get it. It's more in the category of picking an apple off a tree.
@hahahmm I'm happy to share most things with her, but with that amount of money (hundreds of millions) I would prefer that it's used in the specific ways I have considered. I don't think I'll win, there's a higher chance of me getting struck by lightning twice every day for a year, but someone has to win.
if you marry the right woman AND you're the right man then she will perceive you as the leader and happily go along with you doing whatever you want with say 90% of that money. Pick the wrong woman and she will just poison your dinner and get 100% of the money after your funeral. Prenup doesn't really solve the right/wrong woman problem. But it can help weed out the wrong women too, I think.
Any woman I marry will be quality enough to not take what she knows isn’t hers. She also will know that if anything happened, I would make sure she was taken care of.
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We both agreed to a tailored prenup, mostly to protect our separate business interests so your question doesn’t really apply in my case.
It really depends if I have a lot more than them and since I have children that would have to be considered too so I could leave them something. Marriage is just a contract so what’s wrong with another contract
I wouldn't mind suggesting one, depending on the person
As long as the pre-nup is not completely one sided, then yes, I would be fine with that. If all the restrictions are on me, and only protected him, then no, I could not agree to that.
What would your side say? "If my fe fes get hurt you owe me"
I think you’re taking out your anger on people that don’t exist.
Well, I’m assuming you’ve never even had a girlfriend, considering you don’t treat women as actual individuals with their own minds and opinions. So, I can only say this is just some recent thing you heard about and are raging against women in general with because you think it is something they have no defense against.
All I can do is assume. I asked you once already if you’ve been married or divorced before. Feel free to answer it so I can stop making assumptions.
Im over here asking legit questions
My assumptions tend to be correct. Another W for octopusears.
To pretend this is not a legit question is foolishness of the highest magnitude. How can someone who has never kissed a girl give honest insight into marriage and divorce?
i would be fine i bought my own home at an early age and paid it off, have my own car, work etc so i have my own things, def not marrying for anything but him emotionally and physically
Nope. People who are hedging against divorce shouldn't ever get married in the first place. They don't trust their partner. And if there is no trust, there is no love. So why get married at all?
I wouldn't be confident that it would protect my assets and wouldn't get married in the first place.
Interesting assumption that prenups are there to protect the man's assets from the woman. How bout women with assets to protect? Personally i'd happily sign one, work out financials and custody of kids before things get nasty following break up.
If a woman refused to sign a prenup that would make me think she wasn’t too serious and was leaving herself an out rather than work on the relationship.
Yeah I would be fine with it. I would have someone sign a prenup if I was rich
I’d have no problem. Unless I have his children, or he is abusive in the relationship. Then I don’t feel that I deserve all his hard earnings.
Real ladies like you do not need to sign any prenup because we know once they are married than they are forever married 😌
@TonyMetal___86 give me all your Coca Cola money T!
Only if you bring me the whole coca cola company and i heard that miss england and her pop up tent comes with the package 😂😂
@TonyMetal___86 night duck
Good night miss england 😊
Yeah if i were to get married id get the marriage license in a state prenups are actually upheld and theirs no way around them.
To spend loads of money for one special day with someone is too damn expensive.
If I ever get married I would sign as long as he also signed one.
That says what
If I owned anything then yeah. I'm completely broke.
I Never plan to get married, what little I have is mine and I'm keeping it.
I'm not sure honestly.
I think I would definitely want that conversation before proposing though, see what her answers are like.
I do love my money, so I would think any woman I'd marry knows that.
A pre-nup would be required over a certain amount of income to be perfectly honest
Honestly I would only get her to sign one if I won the lottery. That's a lot of money and I know how I want to spend it.
Update: what if you both make roughly the same amount?
We'd still sign one, because who knows what the future will bring.
You can write the prenup so it only kicks in if the wealth is over a certain amount. Although, I'd say if you're married and one of you buys a lottery ticket it should be shared by both. Things change when you get married & something like that isn't like you put in 60 hours/week on a job for 3-5 years to get it. It's more in the category of picking an apple off a tree.
@hahahmm I mean if I won it before we got married
For most things: if you had it before marriage she doesn't automatically get it just because you got married. There's exceptions & gotchas tho.
@hahahmm I'm happy to share most things with her, but with that amount of money (hundreds of millions) I would prefer that it's used in the specific ways I have considered. I don't think I'll win, there's a higher chance of me getting struck by lightning twice every day for a year, but someone has to win.
if you marry the right woman AND you're the right man then she will perceive you as the leader and happily go along with you doing whatever you want with say 90% of that money. Pick the wrong woman and she will just poison your dinner and get 100% of the money after your funeral. Prenup doesn't really solve the right/wrong woman problem. But it can help weed out the wrong women too, I think.
Any woman I marry will be quality enough to not take what she knows isn’t hers. She also will know that if anything happened, I would make sure she was taken care of.