How did you not notice this before the marriage? I dont think she has to have hobbies but she should want to spend quality time together at least during nights or weekends
Ok then i'm going to point out that would also basically mean men/people with real lives don't have hobbies. Those are for women and people with no life to keep themselves busy
@DaySpring I also feel that way about work but for some people that's there thing. I personally just created my life to be fulfilling enough with my kids and everyday task that take up my whole day so hobbies aren't apart of that.
@Aiko_E_Lara true but more often times then not its men that can't keep themselves busy so they get into hobbies. Sometimes women too but I'm just pointing out that it's mostly men
And that again prove you're making assumptions. You know i can also say women do it more as if i am someone who have actually met most women in the world
You're supposed to be the man of the house aka the bread winner. Why is she working? Ofcourse she's tired, she works and you expect her to do wife duties at home. When you're not a masculine man this is what happens.
Women do 100% . Women give birth, are expected to work, and be a maid? Absolutely not. If a man wants the title of Man of house he should be working while the wife stays home and does wife things
Not a whole lot you can do at this point. Figured you would have noticed this before hand. it is very weird. Does she have friends she does things with?
You're going to have a very boring life if she doesn't get out of it. You need to plan things for you both to do and don't give her the option not to participate.
I'd communicate to her my concerns about her allowing herself to fall into despondency & how / why that concerns me, if she was like this before you married her you only have yourself to blame.
Wait a minute. You knew this before getting married, why say something about it now?
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That can be boring, but have you asked her if she is really tired or if something is wrong. Try to plan to do something fun and interesting for both of you
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How did you not notice this before the marriage? I dont think she has to have hobbies but she should want to spend quality time together at least during nights or weekends
Women/people with real lives don't have hobbies. Those are for men and people with no life to keep themselves busy
And what about for women and people with no life?
@Aiko_E_Lara then they gotta find hobbies to fill their time with
Lmao. What a dumb take
Going to work isn't a life. I feel sorry for anyone who thinks that. There is much more to life than 1 thing.
Ok then i'm going to point out that would also basically mean men/people with real lives don't have hobbies. Those are for women and people with no life to keep themselves busy
@DaySpring I also feel that way about work but for some people that's there thing. I personally just created my life to be fulfilling enough with my kids and everyday task that take up my whole day so hobbies aren't apart of that.
@Aiko_E_Lara true but more often times then not its men that can't keep themselves busy so they get into hobbies. Sometimes women too but I'm just pointing out that it's mostly men
And that again prove you're making assumptions. You know i can also say women do it more as if i am someone who have actually met most women in the world
It would be a problem with me. I like to date women who have outside interests of one sort or another.
You're supposed to be the man of the house aka the bread winner. Why is she working? Ofcourse she's tired, she works and you expect her to do wife duties at home. When you're not a masculine man this is what happens.
Women do 100% . Women give birth, are expected to work, and be a maid? Absolutely not. If a man wants the title of Man of house he should be working while the wife stays home and does wife things
@thomasdavid1989 I don't know who you are nor do I care about your opinion. My mind is set go harrass someone else. blocked
Just wondering... is this lack of hobbies news to you? How long have you known her?
I think I would have to find something even if it did not include her.
Didn't you notice this before you got married or did she just pretend to like doing things with you?
Not a whole lot you can do at this point. Figured you would have noticed this before hand. it is very weird. Does she have friends she does things with?
You're going to have a very boring life if she doesn't get out of it. You need to plan things for you both to do and don't give her the option not to participate.
I'd communicate to her my concerns about her allowing herself to fall into despondency & how / why that concerns me, if she was like this before you married her you only have yourself to blame.
That is not healthy. Everyone needs an outlet of some kind.
People with no hobbies are walking red flags.
If that is what she has always done it is not a problem
Do you have unspoken expectations of her? Is she introvert?
Wait a minute. You knew this before getting married, why say something about it now?
That can be boring, but have you asked her if she is really tired or if something is wrong. Try to plan to do something fun and interesting for both of you
Could be depression. Any big life changes recently?
So you just figured this out after marriage? You might be Hamlet but not Einstein.
Yeah. Because then they start getting baby happy, and wanting babies
softlife didn't like my opinion. so she blocked me, lol. what an idiot
Yeah, She seems toxic. Avoid.
Not compatible. A lot of people have no life I guess lol.