Should I pour my heart out to a girl?

[Inlove34]

Okay so I have had a huge crush on this girl since my freshman year, and we are juniors now. But I have been talking to her, like just has friends, I don't want her to know I like her yet. She is an amazing girl and she was in a bad mood the other day, and I made this long paragraph to cheer her up, saying " how her ex is a sh*tty guy, and that she deserves a prince, and how she is beautiful and charming. I have thought about what I want to say to her, but I am nervous. Should I tell her how I feel?

[front2back]

First, I think your paragraph might be a bad idea, it could easily backfire. The reason why is she could take the "your ex sucks and you need a better guy" part the wrong way and you might put yourself in a bad position.

Instead I would just revise the paragraph to only include the compliments of her beauty and everything you like about her, just that. It will still make her feel better and isn't making you come off to strong as your "prince" part might have done.

Also, tell her how you feel. In person and upfront (be direct and honest about it, no beating around the bush). Give her the paragraph too when you tell her. Trust me, it is always a good idea to tell her your true feelings. (a) She might feel the same and like you and (b) it gets a MASSIVE weight off your chest.

If you never tell her you like her, you are just going to hurt yourself by bottling up your emotions. She may also find a different prince in your place if you don't tell her. Even if she rejects you, having a solid "No" answer is better than possibly having missed a "Yes" or never telling her and rejecting yourself.

Good luck.

[leusername]

she probably has feelings for her ex make sure she dosent!

and just tell her you like her no jiberish just be straight up about it and see what happens :)