nope no problem fort me. as i said guys 'like this'; are of no interest to me... so if all guys ended up 'like this' id be perfectly happy to forgo them completely:) i get involved with someone bc i like and want them. not bc i have to be with someone or ill fall apart.,
money... this is about money. i dont want money from guys not have i ever accepted any. just say what your talking about instead of wrapping it up redundant labels.
i dont get involved for money. i dont care iff he earns less. i only get involved with guys i genuinely care about. I've never been 'man hunting' it was never ages;l to find a man,. sometimes you just meet someone special.
I think their concerns are based in painful experience, and I'm sympathetic to that, but their concerns aren't relevant to me because (1) I don't enjoy negativity so they are men whose company I will avoid and (2) I'm not guilty of the sins they're complaining about so I don't feel obliged to try to fix it for them. If MY boyfriend started complaining that _I_ had become selfish and domineering and inconsiderate of his needs, that would make me snap to attention. If my friends, male or female, were telling me, "damn, you really shouldn't treat him like that," I'd take it as a wake up call. I'm lucky to have found my boyfriend, he seems to feel lucky to be with me, and we both put a lot of energy into treating each other well. People who are pissed off at the opposite gender just aren't where I'm spending my time.
I'd love to be in a relationship but I'm not sure if they (relationships) are worth the effort. They always end badly (death or break up), take a lot of work and generally means the involved people having to compromise until they have little control of their own lives.
Where did you get the asinine idea that you need a relationship in order to not be celibate? I can hook up with women left and right with no strings attached easier than getting a drink at a bar. You don't need a relationship to get sex. What century do you think we live in?
I realize it's rough out there - sounds like American girls are the meanest when rejecting others - so if you live there - you're in even deeper trouble. o. O But there are a lot of girls who are normal human beings. Hopefully you'll find one like that. =)
That doesn't say why though. My mom divorced my dad for drug use, others have divorced because of infidelity (most common) if guys could keep it in their pants maybe it wouldn't be that way. I know some women that have cheated on their husbands, because of their husband being absent all the time.
@Coffinspire Stop making excuses for your gender, it makes you all look even worse because you won't even admit when you're doing wrong or take responsibility for your actions.
I'm currently happily married I'm not making excuses for anyone, I've known women that ran around on good men and it's disgusting, but I also know from experience that men do it more often. I wouldn't have to stand up for my gender if you weren't attacking it.
@Coffinspire Statistics show that no, men don't do it more often than women. Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and it's normally for financial purposes.
Again, generalizing the female population by a few "bad women". Not all women will divorce you and take all you have, most just want love and a faithful companion, a nice guy who will marry her is that too much to ask for? lol
@love2run13 Nice try hun but I'm nearly 27, I am old enough to have seen how most of y'all do. Yeah, there are EXCEPTIONS, but they're considered exceptional because most women are NOT like that!
Divorce stats actually paint women in a very negative light, women are more unfaithful (simply because women have more purely sexual options) and women are shown to be prostitutes (they divorce because their husband isn't making money, almost never is a women divorced for not making money). @Coffinspire
I don't know. Many men have been constantly ranting about how today's women (especially American women) are nothing a but a bunch of "man-hating feminazi cunts" who wants to have their cake and eat it too (aiming to surpass men yet still expects to be treated like a lady). Now, these aren't my words at all but words that I've gathered from not only here on GAG but all over the internet.
They guy I like is name is mike ottis And we both agreed to be friends and what to hang out before deciding yo go down that dating path. its work out so far pretty good. there are still those modern guys and girls.
*and the immature and the sexist. Unfortunately, there are many who "cling to traditional values", but that just means they're sexist and don't see you as a person.
Depends, yes I do think the relationships are worthless but of course if it goes sour, you can walk away. Unless you're dating a crazy which is determined to screw you over.
The two forms of relationships which I see as the most pointless are marriage and her living with you, those are very one-sided deals, and they're not in the man's favor.
Men want women with traditional values. Not a woman who wants all the benefits of a committed relationship without being willing to endure the hardships and sacrafices.
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Not really, we have to bring so much more to the table, all a women has to do is not be fat and/or hideous and most men will attracted to her, while we have to be so much more. We still obviously want women, but it is becoming not worth it to get what we want. Seriously, when the Japanese prefect sex robots, most men will just drop women completely.
There are sexy, traditional, sane, sweethearts around. You just have to look for a long time to get one. Longest search will be if you live in the West. You'll find them faster if you go East.
@Asker Do you have anything to support your thought that it is increasing?
I'm sure men were thinking similar things about women 50, 100, 1000 years ago. Just like women were likely thinking similar things about men back in the day.
Most of it is probably selective biased generalizations. Not sure if all 3 words needed to be used lol. I feel our society is moving toward breaking from generalizations. More people probably feel comfortable being unique and an individual than ever. But maybe I focus on different types of people than you.
I voted E. It seems to be a waste of time. Almost all women are unsuitable for any long term relationship. And before you say that there are some who are worth the trouble, yes there are some. But they're too few and not all of us can have one.
Exactly. I'm getting sick and tired of the NAWALT being regurgitated. So what if there's three chicks in the country who are still marriage material? There are like millions of us guys. Women suck at math though so good luck explaining that to them.
This is the most ridiculous thing I've seen all week. Do you really want to compare modern MEN to other men? Because if anyone has the right to "give up" it's women
Oh ok I was thinking you were talking about giving up responsibilities or personality or something. I must have been reading that in someone else's comment and associated it with you.
What aren't men worth and why do you feel they aren't worth it?
Men cheat more often than women do, men care more about sex than emotional connection, still in some countries men make women walk ten feet behind them. This isn't to say all men are bad, just the majority.
Do you have a reference to some studies of men cheating more often than women?
Do you have anyway to prove majority of guys are "bad". Let's take out countries that women are still seen as beneath men in government, religion, and other organizations. I'm sure most people in North America aren't going to witness that form of sexism. We can add those countries to the study, but I think it should be done without them as well.
Okay, without the other countries (which should count because they contain MEN, obviously) in studies asked to American citizens a man will more commonly choose an attractive female over an average one with a nice personality. Firstly this isn't a "study" it's you proceeding to bother me with your incompetence. Secondly I don't need or want to argue this because it is incredibly boring trying to discuss a topic with a brick wall. Go fnck yourself and have a nice day :)
"a man will more commonly choose an attractive female over an average one with a nice personality." Do you blame us if we aren't trying to marry the/a girl? Also why not just get the cuties with an A+ personality to go with it as a girlfriend over so-called average girls I mean that would only make sense, right?
You see that's the problem, the majority of women don't date men they don't plan on having a lasting relationship with. You sir have officially proven me right. Guys will pick the attractive girl over the good personality and that is why women have more of a right to feel dating is not worth it. How are we supposed to know if the guy truly likes us or just wants to bang us because we are attractive? Nice.
The cheating study had both gender's numbers pretty high. I would need to see the studies and raw data to see how they tested it but I'm kind of surprised they are so high.
Not really unexpected though. I feel traditional marriage and family values are becoming less relevant in society. For the most part I see that as a good thing, because I feel they are not the most progressive form of reproduction, emotional stability, and pleasure.
We already know the other countries are filled with men that are demeaning toward women. Adding those countries would mislead the statistics of more modern countries. But they should be added to see how much they sway the statistics.
Just because a women is more traditionally attractive doesn't mean she has a bad personality. And just because men typically prefer more traditionally attractive women doesn't mean they are bad. No one can stop the way a person feels or how they think.
Men are allowed to like who they want just as much as women are allowed to like who they want. It doesn't make either gender more or less bad. I didn't realize you meant bad just in reference to men being more attracted to traditionally attractive women. If that's what is defined as bad, then I'm sure majority of men are like that.
I'm not sure if your last comment was directed at me or not, but I'll reply to it anyways.
What is the topic of the conversation and how did I not reference it?
I don't reply on this site to win, whatever that means. I'm trying to learn how people think. But if you want to say you won that's fine with me. I don't know what meaning it has but if you like to claim it, it's all yours.
Yeah well I saw the science of documentary on the science channel and their test concluded women cheat more than men. 50% of women had cheated on a partner in their lifetime. Men where under 50%
@mrf28412 Oh well then! If the TV says so it must be true!! All hail the science channel, it holds all the answers apparently! May I ask what Teletoons opinion on this was as well?
What would a little kid know about modern men? You're just as bitter as those guys that have given up on women, and those two women that upvoted you are just like you. Also, according to this study, women cheat more, so who do we believe? www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...st-better-lying-it.html
Lol Seeing as I'm turning seventeen this year and you are merely 19 @AleDeEurope how would those two years make a difference? I suppose you are a kid as well then? According to many studies (and obviousness) MEN cheat more, so I suppose it's my word against yours. Apparently you're the bitter one seeing as you are jumping on the "attack the bitchy feminist" bandwagon.
Well, I'm turning 20 this year, so it's not 2 years but 3, and in 3 years you learn a lot, especially when you're out of HS. According to many studies, women cheat as much as men, I just gave you that link that said women do cause you put the one that men do. You say based on obviousness, that's a stupid way to base something like this, cause I've seen more girls cheat than men, and according to this question, there are lots of women that have cheated on www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q403831-girls-have-you-ever-cheated-on-your-boyfriend When did I say I attacked you cause you're a feminist? I didn't even know you were one until you said it. I just commented cause you show too much stupidity and hypocrisy in your comment, and I bet you will end up blocking me cause you can't handle other's opinions.
@AleDeEurope That article is pretty opinion filled. I'm not saying it's true or false, just that it's not a very good article to prove women cheat more than men.
But lots of articles have misleading or opposite results to studies, especially gender related studies. Her article's weren't really much better to prove a point, I feel it's a hard topic to do a study that isn't filled with variables and misinterpretations.
But it's good to question who to believe in all topics. Research all sides of an argument with multiple sources on all sides. You may still not find truth, but at least it might broaden ones understanding of the topic.
How is documentary from the science channel any less relevant than the articles you listed. Neither of those articles are a direct study on who cheats more. One is an opinion piece and one makes the assumption men cheat more and tries to test why. I saw the segment referenced above on the discovery channel and the experiment conducted was specifically to see which sex cheated more. They found women cheat at a higher percentage then men.
If you people are too ignorant to accept and acknowledge what I have shown you then that is your own problem and not mine. You people are the reason we are failing in society and you should honestly consider some life changes and mental help.
Easy I was hoping for a legitimate answer why I should take the links you listed as serious. Getting angry and lashing out at me just makes me think you dont have one. You try to dismiss someone else's facts as meaningless, but give no reason why a person should believe the articles you referenced. Like I'm said one is an opinion piece and the other is starting with men cheat more as the premise behind the experiment they are conducting. Which is not about finding who cheats more at all.
No sir, you have not taken in what I have given you properly, which makes you an ignorant fool. I can't fix something that's already broken beyond repair, so why would I try to fix you?
Id rather have a woman that makes her own story than one that follows someone elses. Bring the emotionaly strong and the ones that know what they want my way. If we connect we connectand ill be happy.
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anyone who thinks im not worth it can kiss my ass., not interested in why from a person i will never want.
Well there seems to be more guys like this than there was. Maybe eventually, enough will think this way that it will become a problem for you.
nope no problem fort me. as i said guys 'like this'; are of no interest to me... so if all guys ended up 'like this' id be perfectly happy to forgo them completely:) i get involved with someone bc i like and want them. not bc i have to be with someone or ill fall apart.,
money... this is about money. i dont want money from guys not have i ever accepted any. just say what your talking about instead of wrapping it up redundant labels.
i dont get involved for money. i dont care iff he earns less. i only get involved with guys i genuinely care about. I've never been 'man hunting' it was never ages;l to find a man,. sometimes you just meet someone special.
I dunno why some men say we aren't worth it, but I don't care 'cause I don't want to date those guys. I'm a modern woman and I have choices.
Do you think any of their concerns are relevant?
I think their concerns are based in painful experience, and I'm sympathetic to that, but their concerns aren't relevant to me because (1) I don't enjoy negativity so they are men whose company I will avoid and (2) I'm not guilty of the sins they're complaining about so I don't feel obliged to try to fix it for them. If MY boyfriend started complaining that _I_ had become selfish and domineering and inconsiderate of his needs, that would make me snap to attention. If my friends, male or female, were telling me, "damn, you really shouldn't treat him like that," I'd take it as a wake up call. I'm lucky to have found my boyfriend, he seems to feel lucky to be with me, and we both put a lot of energy into treating each other well. People who are pissed off at the opposite gender just aren't where I'm spending my time.
I'm pretty sure if you are straight and you want to be in a relationship, if you aren't into women of your age you'll be celibate forever. =)
Good luck!
True but I'm not sure if that's a bad thing.
Then even better. =)
I'd love to be in a relationship but I'm not sure if they (relationships) are worth the effort. They always end badly (death or break up), take a lot of work and generally means the involved people having to compromise until they have little control of their own lives.
Where did you get the asinine idea that you need a relationship in order to not be celibate? I can hook up with women left and right with no strings attached easier than getting a drink at a bar. You don't need a relationship to get sex. What century do you think we live in?
@Kiran04 - sorry... the asker agreed with me making him a bigger human being than you in this matter...
Hooking up, as you call it, is more Middle ages than staying faithful.
Pick up a book every once in a while - preferably a History one. =)
" the asker agreed with me making him a bigger human being than you in this matter..."
Thanks... i suppose.
Haha
It's a compliment. =)
Whew. I wasn't sure there. :)
Thanks. I don't really want to have sex outside of a relationship but I'm not sure if I even want to get into a relationship.
I realize it's rough out there - sounds like American girls are the meanest when rejecting others - so if you live there - you're in even deeper trouble. o. O
But there are a lot of girls who are normal human beings.
Hopefully you'll find one like that. =)
Thanks. :)
Fifty percent divorce rate, mostly initiated by women. You're basically flipping a coin. No, not really worth it, you're better off going abroad.
That doesn't say why though. My mom divorced my dad for drug use, others have divorced because of infidelity (most common) if guys could keep it in their pants maybe it wouldn't be that way. I know some women that have cheated on their husbands, because of their husband being absent all the time.
@Coffinspire Stop making excuses for your gender, it makes you all look even worse because you won't even admit when you're doing wrong or take responsibility for your actions.
I'm currently happily married I'm not making excuses for anyone, I've known women that ran around on good men and it's disgusting, but I also know from experience that men do it more often. I wouldn't have to stand up for my gender if you weren't attacking it.
@Coffinspire Statistics show that no, men don't do it more often than women. Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and it's normally for financial purposes.
Again, generalizing the female population by a few "bad women". Not all women will divorce you and take all you have, most just want love and a faithful companion, a nice guy who will marry her is that too much to ask for? lol
@love2run13 Nice try hun but I'm nearly 27, I am old enough to have seen how most of y'all do. Yeah, there are EXCEPTIONS, but they're considered exceptional because most women are NOT like that!
Divorce stats actually paint women in a very negative light, women are more unfaithful (simply because women have more purely sexual options) and women are shown to be prostitutes (they divorce because their husband isn't making money, almost never is a women divorced for not making money). @Coffinspire
I don't know. Many men have been constantly ranting about how today's women (especially American women) are nothing a but a bunch of "man-hating feminazi cunts" who wants to have their cake and eat it too (aiming to surpass men yet still expects to be treated like a lady). Now, these aren't my words at all but words that I've gathered from not only here on GAG but all over the internet.
They guy I like is name is mike ottis
And we both agreed to be friends and what to hang out before deciding yo go down that dating path. its work out so far pretty good. there are still those modern guys and girls.
No. Guys should create time machines and go back to the 1920s to get the ideal woman.
@pr3ttybr0wn - 1920s women are not my ideal, just sayin.
1940s and 1950s are
It's only worth it if you find a female with whom it's actually worth it. You need to weed through the unempathetic and the irresponsible.
*and the immature and the sexist. Unfortunately, there are many who "cling to traditional values", but that just means they're sexist and don't see you as a person.
In real life, men date and are in relationships with women all the time! Don't let GaG or the internet fool you! ;-)
Depends, yes I do think the relationships are worthless but of course if it goes sour, you can walk away. Unless you're dating a crazy which is determined to screw you over.
The two forms of relationships which I see as the most pointless are marriage and her living with you, those are very one-sided deals, and they're not in the man's favor.
Men want women with traditional values. Not a woman who wants all the benefits of a committed relationship without being willing to endure the hardships and sacrafices.
Not really, we have to bring so much more to the table, all a women has to do is not be fat and/or hideous and most men will attracted to her, while we have to be so much more. We still obviously want women, but it is becoming not worth it to get what we want. Seriously, when the Japanese prefect sex robots, most men will just drop women completely.
There are sexy, traditional, sane, sweethearts around. You just have to look for a long time to get one. Longest search will be if you live in the West. You'll find them faster if you go East.
People like freedom. Being single means you are more free to do what you want.
Why is it mostly guys that think this though? And why does it seem to be increasing?
I'm a girl and I think like this. I can't speak for how guys feel.
There seems to be specific issues with guys. Here's examples : www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1562873-do-some-guys-really-give-up-on-all-relationships-with-women-girls
@Asker Do you have anything to support your thought that it is increasing?
I'm sure men were thinking similar things about women 50, 100, 1000 years ago. Just like women were likely thinking similar things about men back in the day.
Most of it is probably selective biased generalizations. Not sure if all 3 words needed to be used lol. I feel our society is moving toward breaking from generalizations. More people probably feel comfortable being unique and an individual than ever. But maybe I focus on different types of people than you.
I voted E.
It seems to be a waste of time. Almost all women are unsuitable for any long term relationship. And before you say that there are some who are worth the trouble, yes there are some. But they're too few and not all of us can have one.
Exactly. I'm getting sick and tired of the NAWALT being regurgitated. So what if there's three chicks in the country who are still marriage material? There are like millions of us guys. Women suck at math though so good luck explaining that to them.
Why, whats wrong with women today? I thought the quality of relationships depended on the what kinda person he or she is...
This is the most ridiculous thing I've seen all week. Do you really want to compare modern MEN to other men? Because if anyone has the right to "give up" it's women
What do you mean by, the right to give up?
Well if he says women aren't worth it then personally, on behalf of all women I say the majority of MEN aren't worth it.
Oh ok I was thinking you were talking about giving up responsibilities or personality or something. I must have been reading that in someone else's comment and associated it with you.
What aren't men worth and why do you feel they aren't worth it?
No problem.
Men cheat more often than women do, men care more about sex than emotional connection, still in some countries men make women walk ten feet behind them.
This isn't to say all men are bad, just the majority.
Do you have a reference to some studies of men cheating more often than women?
Do you have anyway to prove majority of guys are "bad". Let's take out countries that women are still seen as beneath men in government, religion, and other organizations. I'm sure most people in North America aren't going to witness that form of sexism. We can add those countries to the study, but I think it should be done without them as well.
www.businessinsider.com/why-men-cheat-more-than-women-2013-9
magazine.foxnews.com/.../cheating-statistics-do-men-cheat-more-women
Okay, without the other countries (which should count because they contain MEN, obviously) in studies asked to American citizens a man will more commonly choose an attractive female over an average one with a nice personality.
Firstly this isn't a "study" it's you proceeding to bother me with your incompetence. Secondly I don't need or want to argue this because it is incredibly boring trying to discuss a topic with a brick wall. Go fnck yourself and have a nice day :)
"a man will more commonly choose an attractive female over an average one with a nice personality." Do you blame us if we aren't trying to marry the/a girl? Also why not just get the cuties with an A+ personality to go with it as a girlfriend over so-called average girls I mean that would only make sense, right?
You see that's the problem, the majority of women don't date men they don't plan on having a lasting relationship with. You sir have officially proven me right.
Guys will pick the attractive girl over the good personality and that is why women have more of a right to feel dating is not worth it. How are we supposed to know if the guy truly likes us or just wants to bang us because we are attractive? Nice.
The cheating study had both gender's numbers pretty high. I would need to see the studies and raw data to see how they tested it but I'm kind of surprised they are so high.
Not really unexpected though. I feel traditional marriage and family values are becoming less relevant in society. For the most part I see that as a good thing, because I feel they are not the most progressive form of reproduction, emotional stability, and pleasure.
We already know the other countries are filled with men that are demeaning toward women. Adding those countries would mislead the statistics of more modern countries. But they should be added to see how much they sway the statistics.
Just because a women is more traditionally attractive doesn't mean she has a bad personality. And just because men typically prefer more traditionally attractive women doesn't mean they are bad. No one can stop the way a person feels or how they think.
Men are allowed to like who they want just as much as women are allowed to like who they want. It doesn't make either gender more or less bad. I didn't realize you meant bad just in reference to men being more attracted to traditionally attractive women. If that's what is defined as bad, then I'm sure majority of men are like that.
Literally not one single word of what you just concocted had any relevance to the conversation but okay. I win. Bye!
I'm not sure if your last comment was directed at me or not, but I'll reply to it anyways.
What is the topic of the conversation and how did I not reference it?
I don't reply on this site to win, whatever that means. I'm trying to learn how people think. But if you want to say you won that's fine with me. I don't know what meaning it has but if you like to claim it, it's all yours.
Yeah well I saw the science of documentary on the science channel and their test concluded women cheat more than men. 50% of women had cheated on a partner in their lifetime. Men where under 50%
@mrf28412 Oh well then! If the TV says so it must be true!! All hail the science channel, it holds all the answers apparently! May I ask what Teletoons opinion on this was as well?
Don't be a tit.
You appear to be confusing me with the other people in this comment section. If you are replying to them can you type their name.
I don't have anything else to add because you didn't mention anything I asked.
That awkward moment when a guy doesn't realize nobody gives a shit about his opinion and is just being ignored...
It's not really awkward since I don't care if I'm ignored. If you could explain how it is awkward I'd love to hear it.
But also, you didn't technically ignore me. You mentioned my name in you 2nd to last reply. How could you be ignoring me if you mentioned me?
What would a little kid know about modern men? You're just as bitter as those guys that have given up on women, and those two women that upvoted you are just like you.
Also, according to this study, women cheat more, so who do we believe?
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...st-better-lying-it.html
Grow up please :)
Lol Seeing as I'm turning seventeen this year and you are merely 19 @AleDeEurope how would those two years make a difference? I suppose you are a kid as well then?
According to many studies (and obviousness) MEN cheat more, so I suppose it's my word against yours.
Apparently you're the bitter one seeing as you are jumping on the "attack the bitchy feminist" bandwagon.
Fuck off please :)
Well, I'm turning 20 this year, so it's not 2 years but 3, and in 3 years you learn a lot, especially when you're out of HS.
According to many studies, women cheat as much as men, I just gave you that link that said women do cause you put the one that men do. You say based on obviousness, that's a stupid way to base something like this, cause I've seen more girls cheat than men, and according to this question, there are lots of women that have cheated on www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q403831-girls-have-you-ever-cheated-on-your-boyfriend
When did I say I attacked you cause you're a feminist? I didn't even know you were one until you said it. I just commented cause you show too much stupidity and hypocrisy in your comment, and I bet you will end up blocking me cause you can't handle other's opinions.
@AleDeEurope That article is pretty opinion filled. I'm not saying it's true or false, just that it's not a very good article to prove women cheat more than men.
But lots of articles have misleading or opposite results to studies, especially gender related studies. Her article's weren't really much better to prove a point, I feel it's a hard topic to do a study that isn't filled with variables and misinterpretations.
But it's good to question who to believe in all topics. Research all sides of an argument with multiple sources on all sides. You may still not find truth, but at least it might broaden ones understanding of the topic.
How is documentary from the science channel any less relevant than the articles you listed. Neither of those articles are a direct study on who cheats more. One is an opinion piece and one makes the assumption men cheat more and tries to test why. I saw the segment referenced above on the discovery channel and the experiment conducted was specifically to see which sex cheated more. They found women cheat at a higher percentage then men.
If you people are too ignorant to accept and acknowledge what I have shown you then that is your own problem and not mine. You people are the reason we are failing in society and you should honestly consider some life changes and mental help.
Easy I was hoping for a legitimate answer why I should take the links you listed as serious. Getting angry and lashing out at me just makes me think you dont have one. You try to dismiss someone else's facts as meaningless, but give no reason why a person should believe the articles you referenced. Like I'm said one is an opinion piece and the other is starting with men cheat more as the premise behind the experiment they are conducting. Which is not about finding who cheats more at all.
No sir, you have not taken in what I have given you properly, which makes you an ignorant fool. I can't fix something that's already broken beyond repair, so why would I try to fix you?
Id rather have a woman that makes her own story than one that follows someone elses. Bring the emotionaly strong and the ones that know what they want my way. If we connect we connectand ill be happy.
As long as you see a future with that person it worth it. Don't generalize. There is nothing wrong with modern women's.
Depends on the woman. You have to develop a sharp eye for internal underdevelopment.