Other Why do people say they're fine when they're not? (Page 5) Nayrr Follow Yoda Age: 23 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 73 Why do people say they're fine when they're not? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 10 likes
WildNekoWolf Follow Xper 6 Age: 21 +1 y So that people will leave them alone and so that they won't bother them. 2 0 Reply
Sweatyotterr Follow Guru Age: 20 +1 y Because I’m feeling fine, I’m not bad I’m not great I’m just fine 1 0 Reply
gorman24 Follow Xper 5 Age: 30 +1 y It is an automated response basically saying I don't feel like talking about it. 1 0 Reply
YHL6965 Follow Guru Age: 27 +1 y Because most people don't actually care if you are not fine and you are more likely to be mocked/excluded if you say you are not fine. 1 0 Reply
Hawky_ Follow Xper 6 Age: 43 +1 y Fucked upInsecureNeuroticEmotionalBecause people hate to open up about how they are really feeling. Usually driven by fear 1 0 Reply
xkforcesc2 Follow Xper 5 Age: 37 +1 y Because a) they dont want to drive people away and b) a lot of the time the ones that do stick around dont know how to help. 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (18-24) +1 y Because people usually ask “how are you?” without really caring how you are 2 0 Reply
Snakeyes7 Follow Guru Age: 26 +1 y 589 opinions shared on Other topic. They don’t want you to worry about them. Even if there is something seriously going on, they don’t want to burden you with their problems. 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (18-24) +1 y Because nobody wants to really hear the truth. Trump taught us that. lol 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (30-35) +1 y Probably same reason guys do. It’s embarrassing to admit their vulnerabilities. 1 0 Reply
OfDeath Follow Master Age: 38 +1 y 3.9K opinions shared on Other topic. Cause nobody wants to hear about your bullshit. Everyone has their own problems. 1 0 Reply
clampfan101 Follow Master Age: 36 +1 y 5.5K opinions shared on Other topic. Sometimes it’s like telling your scared self you’re not afraid.Sometimes it’s like a fake smile. 1 0 Reply
LuWe22 Follow Guru Age: 28 +1 y 1.4K opinions shared on Other topic. Because I don't wanna bore people with my little problems and feelings so I just say "I'm fine" 2 0 Reply
Lman3000 Follow Xper 6 Age: 26 +1 y Eh just can't find a way to express the true feeling within I guess 1 0 Reply
_dude_ Follow Xper 5 Age: 29 +1 y In part for privacy reasons and in part to not come across as being needy. 1 0 Reply
hana12 Follow Xper 5 Age: 30 +1 y i dont want to worry people i am strong i can deal with any problem myself. 1 0 Reply
Guardian45 Follow Guru Age: 49 +1 y Excellent Q! I know when my SO said this, it was time to leave! 1 3 Reply Guardian45 +1 y MOST TERRIFYING WORDS said by ANY WOMAN!INCOMING! TAKE COVER!!! Reply Guardian45 +1 y Most of you won't get this, but US CLUELESS males understand!😎👍 Reply Guardian45 +1 y "Vana, I'd like to buy ALL the vowels please!"AIYAYAI!😳🤯 Reply
seth900 Follow Xper 5 Age: 33 +1 y Because people hide there real life. Because this society expects you to be successful 1 0 Reply
CoffeeWC Follow Guru Age: 27 +1 y 2.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Sometimes it's a matter of pride. Sometimes they don't want other people to worry about them. 1 0 Reply
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So that people will leave them alone and so that they won't bother them.
Because I’m feeling fine, I’m not bad I’m not great I’m just fine
It is an automated response basically saying I don't feel like talking about it.
Because most people don't actually care if you are not fine and you are more likely to be mocked/excluded if you say you are not fine.
Fucked up
Insecure
Neurotic
Emotional
Because people hate to open up about how they are really feeling. Usually driven by fear
Because a) they dont want to drive people away and b) a lot of the time the ones that do stick around dont know how to help.
Because people usually ask “how are you?” without really caring how you are
They don’t want you to worry about them. Even if there is something seriously going on, they don’t want to burden you with their problems.
Because nobody wants to really hear the truth. Trump taught us that. lol
Probably same reason guys do. It’s embarrassing to admit their vulnerabilities.
Cause nobody wants to hear about your bullshit. Everyone has their own problems.
Sometimes it’s like telling your scared self you’re not afraid.
Sometimes it’s like a fake smile.
Because I don't wanna bore people with my little problems and feelings so I just say "I'm fine"
Eh just can't find a way to express the true feeling within I guess
In part for privacy reasons and in part to not come across as being needy.
no one wants to hear a long story about why you are not
i dont want to worry people
i am strong i can deal with any problem myself.
Excellent Q! I know when my SO said this, it was time to leave!
MOST TERRIFYING WORDS said by ANY WOMAN!
INCOMING! TAKE COVER!!!
Most of you won't get this, but US CLUELESS males understand!😎👍
"Vana, I'd like to buy ALL the vowels please!"
AIYAYAI!😳🤯
Because people hide there real life. Because this society expects you to be successful
Sometimes it's a matter of pride. Sometimes they don't want other people to worry about them.