Do I tell my husband's best friend that I had a sex dream about him?

[JoDee8284]

I have had a few sex dreams about my husband's best friend! I've never told anyone about the dreams, but this past dream I had, I can't shake it. I have this urge to tell him my dream. I've known him for 22 years and it was his house where I met my husband. Do I tell him?

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+1 y

Thank y'all for all the insights, comments, suggestions, sarcastic remarks, & etc. To update y'all. I did tell my husband the dream. Yes! He was conflicted with an array of emotions. I will not express the dream with our friend. We have been married for 18 years, together for 20 years. We've been to highest and to the lowest in our marriage. Communication is important to me, that's why I felt the urge to tell someone.

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+1 y

After reading the many reviews about the consequence of telling our friend, I chose not to tell him. My husband was flustered for a couple of days. But he realized it was only a dream, and that's all it was. In a positive outcome, it did reignite a flame in our sex life. So, for that, I am thankful.

[Rob70]

Do you want to hurt your husband’s feelings. What do you expect to come from telling the friend. Are you hoping that bye telling him about your dream he will want to make it a reality. There are a lot of things to think about before you go telling him. You could end up ruining your marriage and the friendship between you and your husbands friend and the friendship between your husband and his friend. Is telling him worth the risk or is the dream something you keep to yourself even if you would like it to happen in reality

[TheMajesticKing777]

No, that will just make you look like you are telling him for a reason, you'll give off the wrong message to your boyfriend, well you already made me wonder, why would you wanna tell anyone, unless you want it to happen foreal, that's the signal you will be giving off here lol

[PrettyPriya]

Now why would you tell him? What makes you think that is a good idea? All that is going to do is create problems that didn't need to be created.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Uhhh, being honest is important but what’s your intent with telling him?

[Playboy2424]

She wants to have sex with him. it's no brainer

[hahahmm]

How would you feel if your husband decided to secretly tell your hot looking girlfriend that he had a dream about banging her? Why am I even asking? You already know this is a horrible idea unless you're a cheater looking to test the waters.

[dustybiker]

We both know you are old enough to know the outcome.

[AviatorTom]

Please don't. It will negatively affect your, his and your husband's friendship. Nothing wrong with fantasy dreams, just keep them to yourself.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it sounds like a brilliant idea. You should call him right now.

[Mangospacho]

That’s a horrible idea unless you’re trying to hook up with him. Plus, if he was any good in your dream, that would make it even worse.

[noohair]

No, never. You will ruin your relationship if your husband ever finds out.

[prosmind]

Don't Tell him in open words, show him your interest by wearing sexy clothes and talking about sex.

[Anonymous]

No. Nothing good can come of it. Telling your husband about it is a possibility if you just feel you HAVE to tell somebody

[Playboy2424]

They say "turn your dream into reality"

[Playboy2424]

Lol wait for few days 😂

[Wise4myage]

Are you seriously that dense, or just trolling?

[hahahmm]

As Santa would say, she's trying to be a ho ho ho!

[Wise4myage]

@hahahmm Her husband must be lousy in bed.

[hahahmm]

@Wise4myage Oh, there's lots of other possibilities but women tend to find ways to explain away their own actions/choices and put all the blame on the man.

[dustybiker]

@hahahmm He’s too smart to be brainwashed.

[jahaims]

What would be the point? You want to cheat?

[Stevefiveo]

If you want to start an affair with him, then yes.

[KatieB713]

Not unless you want to strain your relationship

[In_Trance]

Why don't you ask your husband what you should do?

[Danny_dan92]

Wow. You’re a little slut huh?

[Fuentes]

Woe your not faithful. at all lusting over him

[Fuentes]

Wow**

[SpaceGalaxy]

Now why would you wanna tell him that?

[clemdenim]

Do you want to make it real