look uncomfortable or be uncomfortable?
You’re in a public setting, but uncomfortable:
Would you rather feel/be comfortable, yet look noticeably weird/ concerning to others?
give the ‘appearance of comfortable,’ aka drawing less unwanted attention to yourself? (But feeling tense/anxious )?
(so *look* uncomfortable, but *be* comfortable? OR *look* comfortable but *be* uncomfortable)?
I really….. dragged this out. Lol Just want this to be simple to understand 👌