My boyfriend always puts his car first?

[yourforever]

Boyfriend is obsessed with his car and whenever there is something that needs to be done with the car he ditches me. I get he loves his car and wants his own time to do his stuff but, I hadn't spent time with him for a month because he always ditched me for the car. And he tells me how the car is the most important thing to him and he gets so angry if I say something negative about the car. What do I do?

[InquisitiveMale]

You accept that the car comes before you or you move on and find someone who will put you first. I think I understand your boyfriend though. He's young and he's got a car... that right there is freedom. Young males want nothing more then to be able to do what they want, when they want, and go where they want. His car enables him while you're trying to tie him down to one place. Adolescent females and adolescent males don't often mix in sorry to say. They want different things.

It's not really until you get into your early to mid twenties that both sexes start wanting the same things out of life.

[Ubetiburn]

What kind of car does he have? Does it have a blow up doll as an airbag or some fake boobs? I mean I had a 6.6L Trans Am Turbo and my girl came first.

I mean for a man that is 16 I thought I had a great car and great parents as they paid for half. link

This is not my car but the same make model and looks.

Give him the cold shoulder for a while. Treat him the way he treats you.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

ehh...

i really wouldn't have thought you'd need to ask this but okay;

GROW A SPINE WOMAN AND DUMP HIM.

[prophecy]

i think it's time to move on. if he didn't have time a whole month for you, then I think you should already know what time it is.

[askq21]

tell him to grow up, that's just sick.