Should I be worried if my boyfriend goes on The Chive daily?

[Anonymous]

I have been assured by a close guy friend that I mean more to my boyfriend than a pair, but I just can get over the pictures that are on The Chive. How would I address this situation?

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+1 y

I originally did not put much though to it (Its a guy thing) I even gave my insight on the girls. After the recent turn of events about a disturbing display picture (looked like girl having a ball with a guy in between her legs) on a account however I can't seen to shake it off. The seed has been planted and now I have doubts.

[madhatters4]

I doubt it. There isn't much to the website. I mean if he is on it non-stop then perhaps you should have concerns about him becoming pre-occupied with it. But it's like p*rn, most girls know their dudes watch it but like to pretend they don't. The Chive, p*rn, etc are to guys what Twilight, 50 Shades of Gray, etc are to women.

If it because something where he is pre-occupied or starts projecting what he sees on the site into your life then you can worry.

But I love my girlfriend like nothing else, I go on The Chive maybe 2-3 times a week, my girlfriend honestly has nothing to be concerned about

[anon1111]

I don't understand the problem. The Chive has funny pictures and pictures of hot girls. They're not even naked. What's the big deal?

[madhatters4]

well any time a guy or girl looks at the opposite sex it's going to create a feeling of insecurity. If your girlfriend spent her time on Cosmo's top hottest dudes everyday you may feel (or at least most guys) some insecurity... Of course if you can deal with that it is a great trait and shows you trust the other person and are secure in who you are and your relationship

[madhatters4]

all that said I agree with I think your sentiment. A man looking at another woman (naked or not) should not overly concern someone. But having a conversation with them about it isn't something they shouldn't feel like they can do. My grilfriend found my p*rn once. Initially she was shocked and hurt, we talked about it and now she understands. I'm sure she doesn't love the idea of it, but she understands she shouldn't feel threatened

[Anonymous]

It's just a guy thing is not an acceptable answer. It's not OK at all. No it is nothing like twilight or 50 shades of gray even. It is not OK to make your significant other feel like sh*t about themselves for some meaningless entertainment. Do girls do this sh*t to their guys? No. So quit making excuses for your perversions as*holes.

[shannono]

I can't stand the fact that my bf looks at those girls everyday. So when I pulled up a nice photo on Tumblr of big cocks and started to scroll through the pics he was not happy.

[Ment0]

I actually thought about asking him how he would feel if I created a female version of that app. I’ll call it “The Shallot” and showcase hot men wearing grey sweatpants all day

[pixelpusher]

Of course, that site is nothing but half naked girls showing t and a. More the mens comments are as if they are leaving messages for whores.

[Brando]

Perhaps he looks at the funny pics?

[kscheid]

Smut site for pervs.