Do girls care about a man's physical imperfections?

[Anonymous]

I was just wondering, because I know men are much more physical than women. I really like my facial features, especially my eyes :d my nose is the only exception. It's not "clean cut" or anything, it's oddly shaped, not extremely large though, it's assymetrical (you know, the front cartilage do not conjoin, so it looks a bit awdry.) It's not exactly bulbous but it's not a David Beckham nose at all either.

I know I would probably find this a bit unattractive on a girl, but how much does this mean for a girl to be attracted to a guy? I know you care about personality etc - but in means of pure attraction, how much does it mean?

[Anonymous]

David Beckham? Really? He's ugly! It doesn't mean anything to a girl if you are an elephant if she likes you. It's all confidence and approach for us. You're the hunters, we're the selectors. We select what's best for us, what has qualities and not only looks. You can't quite understand it because you're a guy. Example: Hot guy approaches us, he's really dum and he's approach is typically cliche after cliche - most of us would immediately scratch him off the list with possibilities even just for sex. Only sluts fall for that. You have it right it is the personality and the way of approach. Looks is something that attracts everyone at first but you don't get to have a shot with us if you're an idiot, a creep or too self-absorbed a**hole!

[blondie2013]

Personality is key for me.

I'm currently talking to a guy who has cerebral palsy and a little bit of a lazy eye, which means he limps when he walks, and one of his eyes won't focus, but that doesn't stop me at all. He's a total sweet heart and I love the boy to death. I still find him attractive too, even with his conditions. Physical attraction is important in a relationship, but imperfections are not make-or-break, because if I'm not perfect, and I'm definitely not, then why should I expect others to be?

[XRabbitHeartX]

It really doesn't matter! I've liked many guys who probably had "imperfections" but that didn't stop me from being attracted to them. It's not like I'm going to say "Oh wow hot guy!" and then suddenly notice something minor and go "Oops my opinion just totally changed". If there's something, there's something. A tiny physical imperfection is not going to change that and uniqueness can sometimes be a very good thing too.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Thank you!

[Janson]

The main one is height. If you're really short you'll have a lot of issues, and most girls won't look past it. Most of the other things you mentioned aren't much of an issue

[Anonymous]

Personality is more important than looks. My boyfriend has two fake teeth because he chipped them when he was young. One of them is 11 years old so it's the brown yellow color and the other one fell off so it's chipped. It doesn't bother me. I love him for who he is.