I'm not saying it's wrong to get advice or opinions from someone ever. Sometimes, we all get confused with our thoughts, feelings and want to hear someone else's point of view.
There's just some reasons why the best advice has to come from ourselves.
We're all different people. What works for one person, or one couple; may not work for the next. Relationship dynamics are based on the personalities of the two individuals involved. If there is something wrong in your relationship, the best person to communicate that with is the other person it involves directly and the other person it affects.
People are well meaning, but they can't always fully understand the situation unless they've experienced the same exact thing. And sometimes you will get great advice that will work for you. But sometimes you won't.
Plus, we really do know the answers sometimes, right??!! I mean, we'll be the first to give someone else advise.
So then, were should apply the advice we would give someone else to our own life. And believe in yourself and be true to your heart.
It does help to talk to someone, get things off your chest. Work issues, worries about school or children. But when it comes to relationship issues, be careful not to let too many"people" into your relationship.
You may end up getting varying or conflicting advise which may further confuse you to what you should do.
But at the end of the day, the best advise, the thoughts that matter the most should be yours and those of your SO. Isn't that the point?
Being with that one person that understands you better than anyone else? That you can tell anything to?
Again you can value someone's opinion, but at the end of the day, be true to yourself and what's best for you. 💯♥️
Thanks for reading 🤗🤗