I found my girlfriend collapsed at her place, but she still won't tell me what's happening to her. How should I make her talk about it?

[Anonymous]

I think my girlfriend is ill, I've been with her for eight months now, she told me she used to have this health condition when she was young but she's all better now. Recently, she became really pale, and lost weight fast (she's not pregnant or doing drugs... fyi). and this evening I found her unconscious, burning up, I tried to all 911, but she regained consciousness and stopped me and she's finally sleeping now, temp is down to normal.. thank god.. but still hasn't tell me what's going on with her. I'm really concerned about her. How should I make her talk about it? :/ have you ever had a gf with health condition? I really want to help her but I don't know how.. please help

[Jahnnavi]

Maybe she's tensed about something or maybe nervous. She can have an internal turmoil going on inside her you know.(just a phrase I use). Or possibly she's trying to lose weight that's why she's fainting and becoming pale. Keep a check on what she eats, how much she eats and keep a tab on her weight too. If she's drastically losing weight I advice sit down with her, talk to her about the problem which she had as a child, tell her to go to the doc. But don't pressure her, give her, her own time to do things. Hope it helps :)

[Asker]

Thanks

[Aliciajosefina]

You should def keep an eye out for her. Calling a doctor is prob the best thing to do but be prepared for her to get upset. She's probably not ready to talk about it and if she finds out that you called then she may feel a little betrayed.
Calling the doctor will be better so you know how you can help take care of her and to prevent what just happened

[Asker]

Thanms

[Dronemeister]

Give her space and whatever you do... do not pressure her. Wait a few days and either she will tell you or you can inquire about it. If she says no then drop it.

Something must have triggering it?

[Dronemeister]

I agree with cajun. Tell a doctor what happened.

[Asker]

Thanks

[cajun]

call a doctor and find about it..

[Asker]

thanks I should :(

[cajun]

The best thing, dont ask her directly about her problems, try to be with her, care for her, be with her

[Asker]

Thanks.. I feel like I should do something for her sigh

[cajun]

yes.. good luck..