Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend used to self harm? (Page 2)

Question

So I used to self harm, which left me with a lot of scars down my arm and on my thighs. I have recovered and I am SO much better. I have learnt to love myself which a lot of girls i know can't do. I can say that I am a very confident person now and self harming is not a route that I see my self going down again, literally I don't think I could do it.

I'm now talking to a guy and if it leads somewhere I'm a bit worried about how he would feel about my scars. Another guy I was seeing quite a while ago knew, and he had no problem with it, but never actually saw them, just knew I used to self harm.

How would you feel if your girlfriend used to self harm but she is 110% better now, and in a very stable position and is very happy? Is it a turn off? Or would you not care?

Consultant · Answer

Tell her to seek help, discontinue dating her.

Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend used to self harm? (Page 2)

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