My boyfriend tells his mother everything happening in our relationship, even to the smallest detail?

[Anonymous]

it seems there is no privacy regarding our relationship... even yesterday i mistakely stained our bedspread with blood ( im on my period and i flow heavyly) so i woke up early to clean it up. He saw me cleaning it instead of he asking me what the problem was? He went to tell his mom that he saw me early this morning doing something on the bed. And his mom asked me what i was doing. i ignored her question, then my boyfriend asked me again, tell us what you were doing.

I dont really know... is there anyone here who has experienced this before? so yes? how did you go about it?
Also is there any boy/guy here who tells his mom everything in their relationship even to the smallest detail? if yes? why do you do so? he

[Anonymous]

Ughh yes. Im sorry you have to deal with that. My ex did this to me. He told her i got on the pill, that we sexted, and that i had to get a drug test (i have never done drugs!). So basically his mom thought i was a slutty drughead. Its irritating. You might want to tell his mother that you dont want to lose your relationship with her or make it awkward but some things need to be kept private and if he says something personal to tell him to please think before he speaks. Trust, if you ask him to stop, he won't get it, but if you go through his mother he will probably listen to her because they are so close.

[Poppykate]

I would have responded to his mum with 'cleaning up your son's wet dream'. Lol but seriously, like OMG!!! You need to talk to him about boundaries! Just a tip about your period, to get you through the night try using both tampons and napkins at the same time during your heaviest.

[zombiebabe]

i think the only thing do to is to talk with him about it

[Asker]

yeah, i have already done that, but he said it doesn't matter.

[zombiebabe]

then talk to the mom

[FreeLunch]

Wow, he really doesn't have your back. He's a little rat. He should protect your privacy, not expose it.

I've never told my mother anything specific about my past relationship, other than how things were generally going. And if one was going through some embarrassing situation, you can bet I helped her out and prevented my family from seeing her in a bad or embarrassing light.

[DodgersGM]

That seems very strange, not gonna lie. Talking to his mom about your period and stuff... eeek. That must feel so odd.

I would have a talk with him and tell him that you *need* more privacy in the relationship. He needs to respect that. And if he doesn't, then he might find himself stuck with his momma for the rest of his life.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well if it is a problem for you, you should make it know. But in reality, this might just mean that you're pretty much wife-material already and he feels so safe in your relationship, that he'd be willing to share these secrets with his mom... like he would if you were actually married.

[Asker]

and is that positive or negative?

[ThisDudeHere]

I would say positive but if you want, you should still express your true feelings about it.

[Anonymous]

I talked with someone like that and it was frustrating. No privacy at all! He shared everything.

Have a talk with him. He needs to fix that.

[SHMBO2]

That's so weird, is he 5 it's not normal to tell your mom stuff like that

[MaskedSanity]

No, I haven't.

I don't date mama's boys.

[abundantlyrich]

That guy dont know discretion. Oh jezz