Is it selfish to want a guy who can take care of me Financially? (Page 2)

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I want to start off by saying that i am a very independent woman. I am 23 and i have had a steady full time job since i was 18. I am putting myself through college and have never had to ask anyone for anything financially. The reason i ask is because I have never he a relationship where the guy was even close to as stable as i am financially. The majority of guys i date never have been able to hold down a full time job. That usually wasn't an issue with me, i wound encourage them, but without fail they always seem to find a good job or seem to become responsible after the relationship ends. I am a good girlfriend. I Take care of my man, i cook, i clean and i make sure he is satisfied and am very low maintenance, and it always seems like after i get fed up by them becoming too comfortable, we break up. I always hear them say something like "Losing you made me see what i was doing wrong and made me try." But by then, the damage is done and there is too much damage to really salvage the relationship. I want a good guy who is in a position to take care of me financially or even be able to take me out and spoil me occasionally. I have never had that. Is it selfish or shallow to want that?

Anonymous · Answer

Interestingly I think there are way more guys in your position.

Anonymous · Answer

its fine i only use women for sex and thats it women are just sex objects to me

Anonymous · Answer

If being financially supported is a requirement for a women, i consider her a whore/prostitute

gobsmacked3 · Answer

No, I would support that.

jakeofalltrades · Answer

no, a bit old fashion but nothing wrong with that

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