My crush died in an accident, I don't know what to do, I can't get over her?

[Anonymous]

So, there was this girl I liked at the end of sophomore year in high school and now I found out she died last week, We never talked and I never had her for one of my classes but I can't stop thinking about her after that accident, even though I never knew her or will ever know her ever again, I don't know what to do or what I feel right now. She was probably the reason I went to school, I don't think I'll ever recover from this. Please help, please.

[Anonymous]

Accepting death is a part of life. We all would like to believe that it doesn't exist but it does and it eventually happens to everyone you know and love. I'm sad you had to meet this reality so early in your life. The only real option is to feel it. You won't be sad forever. Almost every adult on this planet has experienced losing a loved one so eventually returning to an okay state is entirely possible even though you feel like this will be forever. It just takes time and tears. Take as much time as you need and just embrace the sad feelings. If you really think about it they're a good thing. They're a sign that you care about humanity. The feeling exists to remind you how important those around you are to your life and how much you should cherish and value those you have left. I can't make the pain go away but I can say don't be afraid of it. That sadness is good and it's there for a reason.

[kiler1000]

this might help: www.jw.org/.../#

[skullly]

why don't you find out where she is buried? ... visit her.. take her flowers... pray for her and confess what you felt/feel... perhaps that will help you adjust and recover... and perhaps eventually move on.. once seeing where she is.. etc...

I don't know..

that's all so sad.
rip to her.

[MadameJulietta]

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that.

Go ahead and grieve, shed your tears, and let the pain wash over and through you.

This is difficult, but it is an unavoidable part of the process. The depth of the hurt reflects the depth of your humanity, and your love for the one who has died.

Good luck.

[RainbowFanGirl]

You'll get over in time dude... I'm so sorry that happened.

[apexalpha]

duude from the description it looks like you didn't love her you were only hormonal about her

[Yo3yo45]

Did you take lessons on being an asshole

[XNicholeMariex3]

You will, love. In time you will move on and heal.

[R3d_Anonymous]

Give a speech at her funeral.

[chrisbigman]

See a therapist.