Other things to add to your list because you think guys aren't shallow
Must have giant boobs Must have long blonde hair Must be experienced at blowjobs Must cook and clean every day Must want kids and no career I could go on forever. Guys will turn down the total package just because she's a B cup and not a D, when girls will take a guy who doesn't have abs if he's nice. Soooo...
so you were turned down and this is what you come up with? Your full of shit on both lists. stop over generalizing people. of course that is what everyone does on this site so I understand...
How about we stop pitting the genders against each other? This is just a stupid question and a platform for bitter people to continue being bitter. Both genders are equal parts angels and douche bags.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Ur opinion of women' s expectations is wrong. U dont even knw us and are saying dis. My expectation of a man is for him to be attractive but more imp. Caring, affectionate , mannerful and respect women , and not think he is superior to any woman just on d basis of his gender. I m capable enough to gain d materialistic things i want myself.
... well if you put it that way, I will have to go with "women". You primarily won me over with the card picture though, I have heard that from people in real life, and if you look at it objectively, that is just the silliest thing ever.
It depends on the individual i don't think gender is so important because if a person is that way inclined they just are regardless of their gender, the female requirement is so far off base sorry haha.
Women have maternal instincts that change their hormones, so when they see someone who they know can provide well for their children, it excites their brain. So women are more shallow, but for scientific reasons.
I'm a biochemistry major. Lol I know it's true. But what you said is very drastic. We look for safety and security. It's innate and I wouldn't necessarily consider it shallow. It's just something that women tend to look for in men. Having something o look for doesn't make us shallow, having a 2 foot long checklist, does.
It's true my recent ex cheated on me because I didn't meet her looks and money requirement... Even though we were together a year she required a man who is muscular balled and they have to have lighter skin than her (she is Mexican).. She also said she believes that a man should pay for everything and she didn't like paying for us every once in a while... I left her ass and she begged me back because I treated her like a queen. I hate cheaters
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Anonymous
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Do you see guys dating fat girls? yes. Do you see girls dating fat guys? no. Do you see guys dating girls with no job? yes. Do you see girls dating guys with no job? no.
Women can be really shallow, and they always have some sort of BS explanation to back up what ever they say to you. I would go for women in general. Guys are douchebags sometimes but not shallow.
dude this is a no brainer it's mostly women who are shallow all the shit they say on the internet and on polls should make what gender has more shallow people ex I have to filter out the undesired I don't need a man who doesn't make enough money he isn't a man if this or this also they are the truly insensitive ones and they don't care and will brush you aside at moments notice
It's actually not uncommon to see a large woman with a skinny man but how often do you see the opposite? Women are quite happy propose there own standards but the moment you suggest she lose weight or wear less makeup the internet explodes.
None of those 'requirements' are what I look for on a guy and I'm sure the same applies to a lot of people. I don't know why people assume they know these things about others.
I have to say it's not true with me. I'm totally head over heals for a guy shorter than me who's a bit overweight and doesn't make half the money I make.
The one for the girls is bullshit and generalizing on a high level.. I dont know anyone with all Those requirements when it comes to dating guys.. have ever though that the girls you surround yourself with are seriously shallow?
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In my entire life I've never met a woman who expects a man to have a nice car, house, be of a high social status, make more money, etc. That's my experience. Of course women have height/race/style of dress preferences. You can't really divide who's most shallow by gender, that's a gross generalization.
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Other things to add to your list because you think guys aren't shallow
Must have giant boobs
Must have long blonde hair
Must be experienced at blowjobs
Must cook and clean every day
Must want kids and no career
I could go on forever. Guys will turn down the total package just because she's a B cup and not a D, when girls will take a guy who doesn't have abs if he's nice. Soooo...
so you were turned down and this is what you come up with? Your full of shit on both lists. stop over generalizing people. of course that is what everyone does on this site so I understand...
How about we stop pitting the genders against each other? This is just a stupid question and a platform for bitter people to continue being bitter. Both genders are equal parts angels and douche bags.
Ur opinion of women' s expectations is wrong. U dont even knw us and are saying dis. My expectation of a man is for him to be attractive but more imp. Caring, affectionate , mannerful and respect women , and not think he is superior to any woman just on d basis of his gender. I m capable enough to gain d materialistic things i want myself.
... well if you put it that way, I will have to go with "women". You primarily won me over with the card picture though, I have heard that from people in real life, and if you look at it objectively, that is just the silliest thing ever.
It depends on the individual i don't think gender is so important because if a person is that way inclined they just are regardless of their gender, the female requirement is so far off base sorry haha.
Women have maternal instincts that change their hormones, so when they see someone who they know can provide well for their children, it excites their brain. So women are more shallow, but for scientific reasons.
Uhhh I don't think so. Lol
@06CuriousMind It's not the same for all women, some don't experience drastic changes in hormones but the science is true.
I'm a biochemistry major. Lol I know it's true. But what you said is very drastic. We look for safety and security. It's innate and I wouldn't necessarily consider it shallow. It's just something that women tend to look for in men. Having something o look for doesn't make us shallow, having a 2 foot long checklist, does.
It's true my recent ex cheated on me because I didn't meet her looks and money requirement... Even though we were together a year she required a man who is muscular balled and they have to have lighter skin than her (she is Mexican).. She also said she believes that a man should pay for everything and she didn't like paying for us every once in a while... I left her ass and she begged me back because I treated her like a queen. I hate cheaters
Do you see guys dating fat girls? yes.
Do you see girls dating fat guys? no.
Do you see guys dating girls with no job? yes.
Do you see girls dating guys with no job? no.
"Do you see girls dating fat guys? " Yeah i actual have but those guys are usually rich or popular.
Hence, "Do you see girls dating guys with no job?".
See... this is extremely generalized > on both accounts.
Holds more true to men than women, however.
Some of your assumptions are just that... and hold no true meaning in real life.
Women can be really shallow, and they always have some sort of BS explanation to back up what ever they say to you. I would go for women in general. Guys are douchebags sometimes but not shallow.
dude this is a no brainer it's mostly women who are shallow all the shit they say on the internet and on polls should make what gender has more shallow people ex I have to filter out the undesired I don't need a man who doesn't make enough money he isn't a man if this or this also they are the truly insensitive ones and they don't care and will brush you aside at moments notice
Punctuation is your friend.
It's actually not uncommon to see a large woman with a skinny man but how often do you see the opposite? Women are quite happy propose there own standards but the moment you suggest she lose weight or wear less makeup the internet explodes.
None of those 'requirements' are what I look for on a guy and I'm sure the same applies to a lot of people. I don't know why people assume they know these things about others.
I have to say it's not true with me. I'm totally head over heals for a guy shorter than me who's a bit overweight and doesn't make half the money I make.
The one for the girls is bullshit and generalizing on a high level.. I dont know anyone with all Those requirements when it comes to dating guys.. have ever though that the girls you surround yourself with are seriously shallow?
In my entire life I've never met a woman who expects a man to have a nice car, house, be of a high social status, make more money, etc. That's my experience. Of course women have height/race/style of dress preferences. You can't really divide who's most shallow by gender, that's a gross generalization.
Both parties can be pretty shallow. I think it's more about the individual than the whole group. And your women's list is way off. For me anyways.
Vote C = Neither
ie: To me, having personal preferences or standards, whether you are male or female isn't shallow period... its HUMAN :)
Men are! Women compromise men's bad behavior even if he's not cute or hot.
Plus we mostly choose personality \the way he makes us feel>body size > physical attractiveness