If I try leave or say anything she threatens to kill herself. (Page 2)
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shes using you,and using the fact that you love her,as a weapon,dont tell her just pack your bags and go,the threats to kill herself are only that,she has found a way to control you,now you need to take that control over you back,leave never look back,ignore any texts,phonecalls from her etc,you are just her whipping boy,not the love of her life.get out there and give a girl that deserves it what you give to her,
She won't do it. Either kill herself or you. You just pay for everything for her and she doesn't want to lose that sense of stability. She's walking all over you and you let her. So I say turn your back and you RUN in the other direction. You don't deserve that, have some respect for yourself and get the hell out of there!
this girl your in "love" with is not worth it. and she won't kill herself. and hell, if she does, he's had a serious mental problem and maybe you could direct her to some help buy calling professionals to anonymously send her mail about mental help or something. I also think you have a mental problem if youve been with her this long.
you are not able to make anyone else happy if you are not happy.
think about yourself before thinking about anyone else. its not as selfish as it sounds.
what good are you to other people if you are not stable and healthy yourself?
This is a lost cause and you should get out of the situation. Do it amicably if possible, no-one needs a vengeful woman in his life, but get out.
Don't worry about missing her. You may miss her for a short while but you'll soon get over her.
Find yourself a decent regular girl and enjoy her.
Oh my god! I would move out and call someone to take her away. I don't understand how you say you don't want to get hurt when this situation seems to be hurting you already. She seems to be very disturbed and she needs help but you do not need to be in that situation.
That relationship, whatever it is, is not healthy for either of you.
I feel so sorry for you and your situation. She obviously is using you and using the killing herself as an excuse so you do not leave. I guess the obvious answer here is TO leave her and run far away. You might contact the police with the threats she has made on you, maybe they can get a restraining order on her.
Because, you have stuck around so long and, haven't actually stood up to her [or so it sounds]. She obviously thinks she can get away with using you because, you actually fall for her 'quilting' you into all this.
I'd start distancing myself from her if I were you, Unless you're fine with being used.
wow...sounds like a crazy girl you have on your hands. call the cops, have her assisted out of your home, and put a restraining order on her. that way, she can't kill you if she really means it. and her telling you she is gonna kill herself if you leave her is a bunch of BS...she is only telling you that so you will let her live with you. get rid of that girl fast...nothing but trouble.
OMG get rid of her I don't know ou but I know that no one deserves to be treated that way she doesnt' deserve you and with the threatening to kill herself ignore it I have been there with a guy that I was dating and it is all about the attention and manipulation trust me jsut try it next time she wants something tell her no and keep telling her no make up excuses if you have to eventually she will stop asking and realize things aren't the same and why she will second guess herself good luck.
I agree I know it hurts to loose someone you love I'm dealign with it right now but, if that perosn doesn't love you back it doesn't matter what you do. My friend tellme to trust in God and he will send me the right one that is for me.
If you love her, get her help. Staying with someone because you're afraid of what she might do when you're gone is a very dangerous ingredient for disaster. Start making plans to leave. Get a restraining order if you can. Change your number and address. Alert your family and friends so they can be careful, too.
Basically, do whatever you can to leave.
She is 100% taking advantage of you. She is responsible for her actions, not you, and she is using you. It's awful she does not work and she sees other guys. OMG, tell her you wish her the best but you have to move on with your life. Good luck!
Kick the bi*ch out, you're too good for her.
She wants attention, she can go and try kill herself.
Her life is of no value if she'd throw it away just like that, you need to man the f*ck up and tell her to do it already.
You goit to get rid of her. Some woman do that and try to control men, if she is out with another guy then you are being used. However, tell her that if she loves you she should choose and if that doesn't work change the locks when she is out.
Hell, she using you. And if she tries to kill you, you know what to do (fck her world up)- if she claims she gna kill herself, tell her that you'll be at the funeral. You gotsta get this joker outta yer life
Omg, she has some serious mental problems, I have worked at a hospital and those threats are enough to tell you go seperate yourself from that parasite, she's just living off of you, and that is not right I agree you deserve so much better, you need to remove her from your residence,I would phone to local police and tell them of the situation and have one of them be there while she is taking her things, and get a restraining order pronto! Best of luck
Okay she's using you as a clutch and she is crazy and she has issues. You don't have to do anything but kick her out of your house get a restraining order on her. You don't deserve to be stressed out or worried if someone is going to do something to you. You deserve better period and another thing learn form this and make sure you see how you attracted her so that you don't repeat this in your life or met another person with this kind of problem.
get her a therapist and get out of there.
If she's that sick- I think it's impressive you actually manage to stay in the same house as her.
GET OUT OF THERE!
She's using you man...she's a crazy bitch...toughen up, pack up and leave if you value yourself...and trust me, she won't kill herself...you really have to leave...
Dude she is Nuckin' Futs. She is only using you for the money and a place to stay. I would say kick her ass out and if she does kill herself then oh well.
yo my brother I would get out of that as soon as possible. the same thing to my buddie , I watched him get hurt in the end. that girl left my freind for an other man. so leave her man trust me