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I don't like my girlfriend going to parties without me, is that reasonable? (Page 3)
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Well, she's your girlfriend and not your wife. You don't own her. She is not cattle. I think a woman can go to or do what they want. And you can do the same thing.
Ultimately, it just isn't up to you. She's going to do what she wants.
And either you trust her and deal with it, or you don't trust her and you make her feel shitty about it.
My girlfriend said she was going to a casino and broke up with me and went to two house parties in which her brother cheated, I think she cheated too or broke up to fuck somebody else.
And this is why i have problems, see i know about things like this, makes it hard to ignore the potential
Matter of fact she was way more willing to give blowjobs after this weekend and her trip to Mexico. Which I offered to travel with her the response was "Are you sure you wanna come?" And I find sexy pics on her phone which she didn't send me...
She should be allowed alone time with her friends..
Hmmm I don't know man you Definitely don't trust her... And this will create a problem in your relationship... So work on it..
I'd say that if she is a good person she won't cheat on you... Period
I dont understand why she wants to go alone and she doesn't want you there. I understand people need some space but still i dont think you are unreasonable
I dont know either... worries and irriates me
And thank you, i dont think i was being unreasonable so i had to check
i do not understand all the people who disagree. What sort of relationship is this , if the one wants to go to parties and doesn't want the other to be there? For me is weird and not the sort of relationship i am used to or i would like to be in
It's perfectly normal to go seperately. You have your own lives.
So I'm wrong in asking this of her? Even if she's agreed with it about me and parties
You're not wrong to ask, just drive seperately in case one of you wants to stay. Why would she say no to you going?
I wouldn't know why for the life of me, I've never asked just respected her wishesbut it seems maybe i should be going without checking with her as she seems to be doing the exact same and is happy about it
Go out because you want to, not to get back at her. You can go out without telling her, you have your own life to live.
Yeah fair point, i just thought she and i had that agreement
Absolutely. BUT they will tell you its not. You let her, she monkey branches, you realize once, u dump her, you feel sad.. i dont say this happens everytime, but most of the time. and remember Occams razor.
It is very reasonable! She should not want to go without you!!!
Its reasonable - a lot of things can happen at a party. And to be with her is right.
If you trust her then I dont see why she can't go. If you dont trust her then it's time to part ways anyway. Remember she is a person that wants to enjoy life and deserves to do so.
It's not a good thing to want to always go with her to parties
You should be able to go to your own parties and she go to hers
Fair enough, not good why?
Because you both have your own thing. Wanting to always tag along is clingy as shit
Agreed, thank you
Not only is it reasonable, it's a natural feeling to have
You can request it of her, but it isn't up to you. If you don't like it, leave.
I think it's reasonable, when I'm in a serious relationship, I never go to parties alone.
That only reasonable if you actually want to go but if she has a girls night once a week that should be completely fine
I think it’s reasonable only in certain situations like girls night out obviously... but I like when my boyfriend goes to parties with me! I also can drink what I want and know I’m safe which makes me feel closer to him I don't know
Unreasonable.
If you do not trust her then you shouldn't be with her.
No one can be trusted.
no, some parties are just attract trouble, getting wasted on spiked drinks, dangerous people, getting drunk... kinda why i wouldn't bother with em.
Exactly Bud, exactly, i just dont understand why she won't understand the roots of my concerns, its not every party -_-
have you tried talking to her?
people get raped at parties... or worse.
Why’d you even have one when you can get sex for free?