How to deal with a guy who is bad at expressing himself verbally? (Page 2)
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Try talking to him about it. Tell him that it hurts your feelings, make him understand.
Maybe he's spending his time with another lady? When he "secretly makes time" maybe the other lady canceled on him.
no don't be ridiculous
He wouldn't spend time with other girls or anything like that. Im a very sensitive person and he knows it too, so he got his snapchat and in his contact list, he only got 2 people, his buddy and me. He is not sneaky at all and we never hide secret from each other. He is a very simple guy..
A lot of guys text like that, and as annoying as it is, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you.
It would be wonderfully if they rephrase it.. haha
yes I know! It gets super irritating I feel like they think I'm boring haha trust me I learned this the hard way, I used to talk to a guy and he LITERALLY answered w just "lol" so I didn't reply and he texted like an hour like "wow thanks for replying" so that just shows that guys are guys haha most suck at texting.
He always talk a lot, but he is a very typical workaholic man, once he start to work, he forgets to eat to sleep, so he will forget to talk to me too. Maybe because he talks too much usually, when he gets cold on replying, I just cannot adjust to it... Haha
Haha yeah I understand girl, it's hard! Maybe you can talk to him about it?
I need to figure how can I start a conversation with him without stressing him out even more, or I should keep it to myself until it happens again next time.
Send him a funny meme! And slowly bring up the fact that you get upset even though you understand he's busy and stuff like that.
show him your goods and he will express himself orally
I have been very supportive, been driving to him, bringing him what he likes, giving him attention and stuff. I can't be that mad as well because its true that he is just busy at work. I just can't get over the feeling with a cold response and by just telling me "I dont have any days off for a couple weeks as far as I know".
If it's like anime, have an argument then randomly snog and suddenly it'll all be fine.
I mean do you like him alot? Don't settle if it's not what you want
I do like him a lot... he is the only man that makes me feel like that..
Is he definitely single when you met?
Yes Im pretty sure.. He won't cheat, we dont really keep secrets from each other. But the thing is how he talks in text hurts me.
I would dump him and move on.
have you approached him about this?
I said something like "I dont wanna make myself like nagging, but I know you are working hard and Im proud of it, I just want you to know to take care and won't be too tired.."
You need need to approach the subject at hand and not beat around the bush... otherwise, this is only gonna get worse
You like telling him directly I feel bad? Will this stress him out even more?
It very well, might. But if you keep this inside, it'll stress you out you'll either be depressed or you'll blow up in a rage. Both could cause lasting problems.
You just live with your poor choices.
NEXT!! Lol
just talk to him