My boyfriend doesn't like my boobs?

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hey everyone! So I have small boobs and I always have. I'm OK with them and am starting to love them more, but at times I still get insecure. I found a video that my boyfriend was watching of a girl in a Santa costume with big boobs (although they were fake) bouncing her boobs. I'm not going to lie, I got upset my this. Because of this I feel like he likes women with big boobs even if they are fake. but when I tell my boyfriend I am going to get breast implants he doesn't want me to. I just feel like he likes big boobs and it makes me insecure.

ak666 · Accepted Answer

Forgive me for a second Prager plug: Breast implants feel absolutely awful. I was with a girlfriend long before who had them. They don't feel natural at all. It's a bit crude and exaggerated but I felt like I had to do missionary position with her at a 45 degree angle because those stiff and large breasts were protruding and it didn't feel like they would give under my weight. I really think your boyfriend is being completely honest when it says he doesn't want you to get breast augmentations. However, large breasts (natural or fake) do tend to have this kind of powerful visual effect, even on me who doesn't like them so much. They still trigger a "hubba bubba" instinct. But I would never choose a girl who had large breasts as a girlfriend. Keep in mind lots of guys might look at a porn star or something but hardly any would ever want one for a girlfriend. It's just a stupid visual stimulus.

America1st · Accepted Answer

Be happy with your breasts. Men will always look at big boobs, even if they are fake and look like a hard ball with a stem. Society is the reason so many of you girls with smaller breasts are insecure. I, personally, don't like fake breasts. I love little breasts as much as big breasts. My first wife was a small B cup. My 2nd wife was a G cup. I loved both sets equally. Lastly, your boyfriend has proved to you that he likes them just as they are by telling you not to get implants. There is a good side to being small, they won't sag as bad as a larger breasts.

bente2 · Accepted Answer

Breast implants are not pretty, they often come out ugly, can break and will need you to walk around with a bra a lot of the times. There's a woman in the netherlands called 'barbie' eho had her breast enlarged u til FF, and she can't ever take off her bra. Showrring has to happen fast, sports bras at night.

You shouldn't even be feeling the need to change for someone else, that's something I hate when people do, change for others. You said you liked your boobs, so why change?

Máiiréad · Accepted Answer

He's with you, is he not?
Every guy is going to notice big breasts, it isn't that abnormal... Hell, even I notice massive breasts and I'm straight.
It is hard NOT to notice it. But it seems he likes you for who you are already. I wouldn't be insecure over that. Confidence within your own body is far more sexier than large glumps of fat/fake.

Mydnite · Accepted Answer

well you haven't come up with anything that would make us believe that he doesn't like your boobs. Just cause your boyfriend watched some random video doesn't mean he dislikes your boobs. You're jumping to crazy conclusions.

dangerDoge · Answer

I saw a video some months that goes over this. It actually goes over your almost EXACT situation (well, minus the Santa outfit.) It's better than how I could say it:

https://youtu.be/S1CUouUs_jw

If you don't want to watch the whole thing, start it at 1:40ish

Loadedgamer · Answer

Do not go that route.

Theirs a case that happened on a plane where a girl just got her breast implanted with silicone, and then her boobs popped and she died.

Because the silicone needs 2 weeks of rest, but I would suggest wait till they grow.

Women still grow breasted until the age of 23 or 25.

meatballs21 · Answer

This is all something you've imagined. He has chosen to be with you because he likes you, he's told you he doesn't want you to get implants, what more proof do you need he likes your boobs?

I like small boobs! My girlfriend has medium boobs. Sometimes I watch porn with huge boobs, sometimes with small. But porn isn't real life.

Kaylyne · Answer

If he can't appreciate you for who you are, rather than what you are (girl with big boobs) than very sadly it's time for you to reevaluate your relationship.

madhatters4 · Answer

so it doesn't sound like your boyfriend has ever said he doesn't like your boobs. it sounds like because you saw some porn or video he watched with a person with big boobs your presuming that he doesn't like yours

KittieCat · Answer

Wow so because my boyfriend watches (take me for example) porn with skinny chicks he must not like my body right? Just because they aren't thick like me he has to only like my body type right? Eek grow up lol

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Your boyfriend is fine with your boobs, it's you who aren't even though you say are. I don't have huge boobs.. just be happy with what God gave you.. some woman don't have any at all.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

He is with you for a reason. If he's with you then that means he likes your boobs the way they are. So chill.

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Oh you just 'feel' so you might not know for sure xD He wants to keep you as you are, and you hopefully stay that way

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think that he doesn't like your breasts. He may like big boobs but I can assure you that he loves yours. I have small breasts too, but my boyfriend adores them. Don't overthink it. It's better to have small but real than big but fake.

NajemEddine · Answer

ofc he likes big boobs duh
plot twist
h e likes u moreover implants can cause issues if they were big
they add weight that your back might not be able to withstand
the doctor will tell u more about it
but dont do it for him
do it for me :p

Anonymous · Answer

just because he watches porn with big boobs inside doesn't mean he only likes big boobs or even likes them at all.

Alex88F · Answer

so what? im more a booty love than a boobs lover (either too big or small i dont care) and i dont feel you should take it so personally if one of your features is just not of his tastes
after all he's in love with you :P not your boobs

BryanMoore · Answer

I'm sure yours are amazing and wonderful and they should get the love and attention they deserve!! Plenty of people would love to see them (and more!) I know it!

antonyburgess86 · Answer

It's a mans thing take me for instance I always look at other woman it's in men's blo

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm sorry that He doesn't like your boobs, but remember He's with you for other reasons.

biguyct · Answer

how do you know he doesn't like yours? he's with you... i only last 10-15 minutes on them so it doesn't mater any size is sexy

Anonymous · Answer

santa outfit, 'tf kind of porn is he watching, haha

dudeman · Answer

some women have shit boobs.

abc--123 · Answer

So he's not allowed to like a variety of sizes?

My boyfriend doesn't like my boobs?

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